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You know how there's ex's that you care about and even love, but you don't stress over them like you would over someone you felt was a soulmate? and even though you didn't want them to breakup with you, once you forgot about them.. A few months or even a year later they came back? Is this because the resistance level is low?
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Sam wrote:
Yes.
It's interesting how LOA works... Then when we really want someone, to the point we become desperate it either takes longer to get them back or people end up never getting them back.
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I think its when we let go of the desperation and all the misery and negativity then especially if we visualize and send out our desires to the Universe they come back It seems ( and I am extremely new at this as well) all the desperate negative heartbroken emotions hold back our getting what we desire detachment is not losing the desire for us to return to our love Its letting go of the desperation and angust which is so very hard I can feel a change in my level of desperation and negativity when I listen to Veronica on Youtube That hope her assurance that he will call and I will have that happy back fuels me
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This is right, you've got it. You can't be needy or desperate and attract the wonderful relationship you are seeking. You'll only attract situations that further amplify your need and desperation! You eventually have to GET HAPPY regardless of anything and everything around you! And when you master that, the floodgates open and all the stuff you desire starts racing towards you out of nowhere! But it's ALWAYS been there already waiting.. You just literally can't access any of it from your lower vibrational perspective. It's like a radio frequency. Change the channel and boom, the music is suddenly there! Change your vibration, and BOOM love abounds 😘
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Cherished you are a Godsend!! Thank you for your ongoing support Finding this forum was a miracle of the best kind
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I noticed a few observations. People who want their ex back. But still go out and talk to other guys/girls seem to get a chance with their ex faster. I guess talking to other people decreases the desperation/neediness. While also raising confidence and vibrations. I mean I'm not saying you have to talk to someone else. But I notice it helps
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It absolutely helps! Get out with someone else or other people and genuinely enjoy yourself? In that moment you are confident and non-resistant, and your person will ABSOLUTELY feel it. I can't count how many times I've been thoroughly enjoying myself and BAM, messages from my guy 😊🌈👍🏼
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barbidoll wrote:
Cherished you are a Godsend!! Thank you for your ongoing support Finding this forum was a miracle of the best kind
You are so kind, but let me tell you what's actually happening here.. Your desire to learn more and to figure out this LOA stuff is really attracting me to want to join in and help! See? Magical. Everything is magical guys, I promise xxxxxx
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Cherished wrote:
It absolutely helps! Get out with someone else or other people and genuinely enjoy yourself? In that moment you are confident and non-resistant, and your person will ABSOLUTELY feel it. I can't count how many times I've been thoroughly enjoying myself and BAM, messages from my guy 😊🌈👍🏼
This is all so interesting.. Where you ever needy/desperate/etc at first? and how were things for you then? and how long was it until you changed your vibrations and start noticing positive changes?
I'm new to this, but I feel like as long as you enjoy yourself.. it could be watching your favorite show,going out,etc then it helps raise your mood..
Before I found this site, about a week ago I texted my ex(which I shouldn't have done) but she responded and we had a little convo.. I notice whenever I'm thinking positive she responds, but whenever I have any type of negative,fear,etc she doesn't reply
Can ex's/people in general sense your vibration? even if you guys aren't talking? for example, I'm not contacting my ex till she contacts me, but if I do RS,visualize,think positive,etc and overall become a happier person.. will she get like a vibe of it? Almost like how dogs can sense fear?
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Ohhhhh yeah, can u say DESPERATE?! I was so needy I thought I would die lol!! And yes absolutely, they feel it. I PROMISE. My guy was on the other side of the world. WORLD! I just decided that it totally didn't matter, and that my loving energy would reach him. And boy did it ever. Try to read as many old tgreads here as you can. AND.. Please read the book Ask and it is Given. You will understand so much more. They feel everything. And anybody who has been successful in raising their vibration will tell you the same. The MINUTE I stopped and TRULY HONESTLY had a moment of fun where I forgot my guy, he came from nowhere and wanted to try again. Really truly!