Hi Emmanuela!

The good thing here that I notice is that you point out so many of the good things about him and you aren't focusing on the bad things. So that is great for a start! :-)

It was normal to have a good cry but now you have dried your eyes, decide what your loa plan is going to be and do it regularly. If you remain patient and positive, then it wil work :-)
 

Jui, I just want to give you a big hug.
Well lots of people here have given you some good advice and I can't add to that. But please do take that advice and have faith that it will get you what you want in life.

barbidoll wrote:

I am listening to the videos whenever I need a "You can do it " lift Is it ok to Visualize every day / night ? I have been trying to figure out the " law of detachment" If I am visualizing I am attached to the outcome but I understand the visualization is what will do it for me Any advice will be appreciated

You really do need to visualize daily or even twice daily. That is super important, and in a way I think it is even THE most important thing. You are creating your reality for yourself and your future in a deliberate way, and the universe will then make your wish come true.

No, visualizing doesn't have to mean you're "attached". It means that you want this to happen, for sure, but that is not necessarily attachment. If you can picture what you want for, say, 15 minutes, twice a day, and then just imagine releasing the wish to the universe and then going about your day with no worries about whether it will manifest or not, then that means you are not attached to it. You have effectively detached at this point. But if you do your visualizations and then spend the day worrying, obsessing, feeling impatient and constantly checking to see if the thing has manifested or not, then you have not detached at all and it will slow the manifestation process (or even halt it). So the key is to send out the intention/visualize and then just let it go in a relaxed way, knowing that it will happen in its own perfect time.

Thanks all of you

Having read your suggestions I think what I will try is to use the technique at some other point in the day, and then at bedtime to sit cross legged or upright on my bed to do the visualizing, and then when I've finished I'll just get in to bed and fall asleep with the vision still in my mind. 
 

Vera wrote:

This is wonderful, my dear! I'll get that book! 

Vera she has a website with lots of posts that are quite useful too. I think I posted the link before on the forum somewhere but  I've forgotten where so I'll give the link again: http://www.applythelawofattraction.com/