Hello, my name is Dayanara and I would really love to introduce myself. I have been on this forum for quite some time now and decided to get off to really explore myself and the law of attraction. I had learned so much and the law of attraction has been working for me in many ways aside from my relationship. Let me tell you once you start making yourself the focus and have yourself see that everything you want you already have, that part of you that once felt empty will begin to feel whole. My new life experience is quite simple, it is wrapped around being happy and raising the vibration of the planet just by simply doing that.

So I am pretty sure you are all curious about my relationship as this is what this website pertains to. So I had entered a new relationship in which has opened my eyes to the true value of my previous relationship. The guy I was dating at the time literally opened my eyes to seeing how my ex really did love me unconditionally because he always came back to me, whether he was dating a new girl or he just went ghost. So one day he had approached me and little by little there was a shift in our relationship. Now the other guy I was dating really showed me what putting someone down is, as I have never felt so irritated by someone in my whole entire life. He made me feel insensitive and like a monster. Then I opened my eyes to see I am not a monster and that he was reflecting the guilt I have been carrying. I ended things with him. Simple as that.

So then I continued speaking to my ex who began calling me perfect as the one who I ended things did in the beginning. But I see a difference between the two, that one actually sees me as perfect and values me for me. I always thought my ex wanted me to change and become someone I am not. But really he just wanted me to break out of my negative mindset because he never felt that was really who I am. He accepts me entirely for who I am truthfully. I realized this because whenever I felt self conscious a

Mental training, being mindful is key to helping you out. The moment you notice yourself slip remind yourself that it is all in your head and that you are having a great day and life is unfolding the way you want it to. Hope this helps, love ya!

I have a lot more freedom to be myself and am encouraged put myself first.

ShootingStar wrote:

That's cool that sounds like a nice relationship . my only advice would be to make sure you have dealt with your heart break and all the negative emotions to do with your last relationship because you don't want to have that in your vibration

Oh trust me, I am past that. I feel like a huge weight is off my chest. Just being clean about everything really helped me put everything into perspective.

Love is a beautiful thing, unconditional love that is. I always loved my current unconditionally and vice versa, we loved each other for years. But I finally decided to take a leap of faith of trying him out again. I broke up with him the first time around, but it was not on bad terms. We were long distance and that scared me at the time. But now, I am more willing to do it because I love him so much.