Cynthia wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

I know how easy it is to lose faith that they'll come back after years of ignoring you, keeping you blocked, not caring enough to unblock you, for example... but my question is, how does one keep the faith up even after such a long time (2-3 years+) of them ignoring or not showing that interest in you anymore, moving on, etc.? Cause it's really hard to believe they'll come back after such a long time of not giving a **** about you. If that makes sense. Kinda makes one lose faith altogether. Can you guys help me find a way to keep the faith that she'll come back to me, despite what the world is showing me and how long it's been with her still ignoring me, not caring for me, etc.?

Could just use a little help on keeping my faith up



Thank you!

Time doesn't make any difference. I had a longer time than that, 4 years and 4 months, during which he completely ignored and snubbed me, telling me later that he was essentially punishing me for what other women had done to him, calling it his 'little tantrum', and when I finally suddenly one day felt nothing for him any more, and couldn't even make myself feel anything for him any more, the following month he wrote to me and told me how much he wanted to talk to me on the phone.  We did that for about 15 months or so. It's always been long distance, and things were going very well for a while, but then things started to deteriorate and I haven't heard from him for about 9 months. I reckon I will hear from him again when he's good and ready and has got over his current tantrum, if that's what it is this time, and the time is right, if I even still want to by then.

 

But what if the motivation for being distant is different? Like she HATES me, or at least feels indifferent toward me, doesn't want me in her life, really doesn't care, etc... I've tried reaching out a few times this year... no response. She really doesn't care... how could she 'magically become inte

Selfloveiskey wrote:

Self talk is important that is where it starts. Question what are you doing exactly to manifest or help manifest? I'm doing Veronica s 25 day challenge gratitude journal to keep up vibes and self love.

That's awesome! I'm really happy you're doing that!

Well, I know it seems like an unnaturally small step, but I'm trying SO hard not to focus on the current reality. Sometimes I don't have to try, which is nice. I just trust. It's tricky to trust and trusting works... sometimes. I just can't help but slip into the worries of "logic" and "real life circumstances". But I've been reading and rereading LoA attracting books and those help me feel good! Also seeing "33" helps a ton!

Trying hard to stay positive. I've been getting irritable easily lately though and when I wake up, I have some anxiety and thoughts of, "Ugh. Back to this life. Maybe I'll just go back to sleep." which I try hard to avoid. I try to be happy and look for things to enjoy. Which I can do on kind of a surface level. But the missing is always there.

I guess right now, I'm just trying to find a way to stay positive that she'll return!  

I've been watching Rose for a Soul and Veronica's videos on repeat and they make me happy! But when I'm at work, for example, I have trouble staying in my mind and not focus on the outside world... and I think that's because I'm too "hands on" involved with work.. I have to be in retail haha!

But obviously there's some doubt or worry or sadness from "circumstances" otherwise I wouldn't be waking up with anxiety and wanting to dream rather than be awake lol.

Avaelle wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

How do you know this?

Nothing changes lol. It's never indicative of anything. I believe we simply manifest these numbers and give our own meaning to it just as we can manifest a specific car and give our own meaning to it. I don't see why numbers should be the exception with special meaning. So why wouldn't my manifestation of an orange cat mean something? Ya feel? At least that's my two cents on the subject. We are the creators, not the universe. And we dictate what the universe sends our way.

Then why not send the woman you want your way if it's that simple? 

Never said it was simple. Hell, I'm still struggling like crazy

It just makes more sense to me that it works that way, also based upon experience. I get these signs all the timr; daily. Yet nothing.

Nope. You see them because you're manifesting them. They have no significance. But it's proof that you can manifest, so...

He said "I love you babe"... am I missing something though? Because this sounds pretty darn good. 

I don't think asking the universe for a sign is something we actually do. The universe doesn't provide. We provide for the universe to give us an extension of what we've asked for. So in a way, you've intended to see a rainbow and a buffalo. The universe isn't a "god". In a way, you're the one that is. Those aren't signs that he'll be back. You've created those "signs". Meaning you've manifested those into your reality. They mean nothing. However, the fact that you've manifested them proves you can manifest your guy back!

Kinda like me. I see "33" all the time. And the fact that I see it has no meaning, but I'm manifesting seeing the number. So it doesn't have a specific meaning, but it does show that I can influence things in my favor!

Best of luck!