Amyh24 wrote:

AceWay123 wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

I'll try using RS without the sexual aspect, although I felt connected to him, I don't really want him back in my life if it's only for sexual reasons. I guess I'll work up to the sexual aspect. 

Having a bit of seducing is fine since that's the whole point of RS. Just keep the love higher than seduction. Good luck❤ know that its working, because without a doubt, it really is.

I have been doing PW and visualizing him apologizing to me and saying I love you, I made a mistake, etc. should I change it as if we are together now? What about the whisper technique? Is that more for seeds to get played in his head like "you miss Amy so much and love her with all of your heart"?
 

Good question. Will like to read answers also 

Gratitude21 wrote:

collie wrote:

If I am sitting at home and have anxiety attacks all of a sudden coz of thoughts of him with his new girl could that be a sign from Universe telling me that they are happy or something or it is just bad thoughts coming from within me?

Hi Collie, I read the whole thread and in some way any and everyone who has commented or advised have been in the similar space as you. I'm no different. I've had multiple failed relationships but my last one was precious and I let that go too. Simply because of my insecurities and low self esteem. I realized this quite late.
Now I'm working on myself first, i.e. Recognising my worth...loving myself...believing that I'm good enough for myself and anyone else with whom I'm in a relationship. The theory of LoA is quite simple...what you put out is what you get. Your man realizes that you don't value yourself and so even he doesn't. You need to raise your standards...otherwise men treat you as a doormat. Till the time you do not love and respect yourself, it's totally wrong on your part to expect it from someone else. Sit and think about it....you don't want to work and you earn money but you want someone else to do it for you and if they don't you want to complain. Sorry if I'm being a little too blunt.
I completed Veronica's 25days challenge...I didn't get the reconciliation I wanted but I got something better. I reconciled with myself.
My suggestion, after my own experience is, the reason why the visualisations are not working right now is coz you are doing it out of desperation. First, do the affirmations for your own self. Keep repeating to yourself that you love yourself...start feeling that love. When you are calm inside is when you should concentrate on saying affirmations for your man.
LoA experts have given you advice, please follow it.
Just trust the process...completely truly trust it! And then see your life change. All the best!

Appreciate the comment
Thanks to LOA and wonde

If I am sitting at home and have anxiety attacks all of a sudden coz of thoughts of him with his new girl could that be a sign from Universe telling me that they are happy or something or it is just bad thoughts coming from within me?

Would also love to hear ideas