BooLala wrote:

Because ppl seem to get it all then quickly get discouraged waiting for it to happen. I literally spoke my girl into existence when she first cut me off.
But dont do it like a routine chore, just have a little faith and persistence. When i first got my girl, even the 2nd time, i didnt go on internet looking up websites i just went for it. After the first time i got her back, when she cut me off 2nd time i already knew i could get her back as i did once before. Had a day or 2 of letting the current reality sink in then i switched it and focused and US again and it worked.
As i said i honestly think getting an ex back is easy

Hah, you're right: I won't think it's cheesy in the slightest once she returns. And it does help. Normally, it puts a big smile on my face, and a fire in my belly, and I drift off visualizing us together. It also has increased the number of dreams I have about us, which is exciting and invigorating.

I appreciate the steps you've outlined. I'm certain this is what I want, the loving, wonderful, lifetime-long relationship with my soulmate. I've grown a lot, and I'm ready for it. I think I do have some fear and guilt from before, but I'm working on releasing them through burning exercises and trying to talk better to myself. I feel what you say is true, and I look forward to the Universe doing its magic.

What do you mean when you say that you spoke her into existence? My love's cut me off temporarily, so I'm curious. It doesn't feel like a chore, these techniques, and I genuinely feel better after doing them, like after going for a run. It's impressive you just went for it: This is all new to me, so this site has been helpful getting me on the right track.

I'm going to start repeating that: Thinking back my love is easy, and it will happen soon.

Hey everyone. I wondered if anyone else was seeming to have issues with self-love. I wrote Veronica the other day (see posts below this one for the story), and she suggested one of the reasons we haven't reunited yet—although we definitely will, make no mistake—is because I'm not in love with myself enough. It sounds corny, but I'm looking into it, and there are some things I dislike.

Some I'm working on hardcore, like getting my severe acne fixed and pushing myself to get to running more often, but others are a little more subtle. One of these with me is self-talk, where I talk down to myself. I've started writing out my issues, fears, and frustrations, screaming a bit at the paper, and then burning it. The release has felt good, and I can just about feel myself shoot up in vibrations and feel better about myself.

I'm curious: Is anyone else dealing with something similar? If so, what techniques do you use to move improve? Do you think this is as serious an issue as it can first appear?