Okay epic fail these things didn't happen..LOL..but I will continue to try.

I started the 25 day challenge in mid August.  Me and ex were not speaking at all.  I did the no contact and followed all the rules.  Now we are friendly and texting.  He has warmed up some in his conversation with me.  Last week he sent congratulatory flowers to my new business.  He has not made any attempt to see me or speak to me on the phone.  I am wondering if doing the 25 day challenge again will help further progress or if I should just keep doing what Im doing and that is focus on myself and stay positive.   

Okay so we have been texting back and forth, nothing outrageous or too flirty.  I opened a new business and he sent me flowers to the studio as a congratulations.  Sweet , it said good luck and he signed it XO.  I had imagined him doing something like this and it happened.  Today I found out though he is on a trip and I wonder if he's with another woman.  Im trying not to let my head go "there" and to continue being positive.  Ive gotten some other signs from the universe that could not have been just coincidence so I think my vibration is kind of high even though I haven't been meditating as much or doing the 25 challenge again.  Any thoughts you guys may have would be appreciated. 

Don't congratulate me yet...we are texting but he's still being a mule.  We had a bit of a misunderstanding today and instead of flying off the wall I explained how I felt and what I meant,.  He finally apologized for making me feel threatened.  I told him during this conflict that I still loved him.  I just don't give a flipping bird anymore.  Hiding my feelings and no contact isn't me living my authentic self.  We aren't back together so I don't know if LOA is working..at this point it's hard to say....right now it all feels like a ton of work.

Act the way you would on a first date..keep it light...nothing heavy...unless your ex wants to discuss the past and the issues but even then keep your energy light....