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Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Stop what you're doing, stop stalking. » 5/06/2018 12:26 pm

luckygirl77
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Hi guys ! 

So I just wanted to say that, (Hate to admit it) but I used to stalk my boyfriend on social media for months. Just wanting to see a glimpse of the progress I was doing with LOA, to see if it's working or to see if he is seeing anyone new. So one day, my fear came true. I went on his facebook to find that he got into a relationship with another girl. I was devastated and that made me want to stalk even more, like find out even more things about their relationship and about the girl. I would keep on stalking the girl's social media until one day i came on this forum and someone said, stop stalking, stop giving energy to the people or the things you don't want. So I stopped stalking her because I wanted to stop giving energy to their relationship. Cause the Universe will give me more of that. 
So, I stopped stalking their social media altogether. Then recently, I found out that they broke up and I was shocked. 
But he hasn't tried reaching out to me still. 
So then I went back on social media and continued lurking, I went back to stalking again, eventhough they've broken up. I would still stalk his social media and the girl's just to make sure that they've really broken up. 
Then today, I saw something I didn't want to happen. He started liking her pictures and her tweets again (after a couple weeks of not doing so). I was bummed out. I got a grip of myself and told myself to STOP. 
Stop it. Stop stalking. I immediately logged off and deleted all my social media apps and told myself to stop stalking and stop giving my attention and energy to them, cause again the Universe will give me more of it. 
So now, I'm here to tell you guys. It's real. It's true what they say, the more you focus on something you don't want, the more you give energy to it and the Universe will keep giving you more of what you don't want. 
So now I'm just gonna focus on me and give energy to the things that I want to happen (Meditation, visualization etc.)
I'm gonna do whatever

Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » So..... um, this happened. » 4/23/2018 12:33 pm

luckygirl77
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Nice to meet all of you & Thanks for your reply ! 

I think I cared too much about the whole 'Facebook official' thing because when we were together, we didn't publicize our relationship on social media at all. So I was kinda taken aback by it when he did it because it felt like he was proud of being with her, and not me. 
And the whole 'liking' pictures thing, he stopped liking any of my pics for a couple of months now but he still likes the new girl's pictures despite that they've broken up. So again, I was taken a back by it and maybe I shouldn't even look too deep into things. As such, I've deleted my social media to prevent myself from overthinking the itty gritty bits of things. 

You guys are right, I should definitely focus on the end result and not what is happening in my current reality. 

​Thanks again ! 

Veronica's 25 Day Challenge » So..... um, this happened. » 4/21/2018 9:28 pm

luckygirl77
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Hi guys ! I'm new here, well I'm new to posting, but I've been following this forum for months now and I've been reading everyone's success stories and advices, and that gave me hope. Keep the positive vibes going ya'll 

So, my guy and I broke up months ago and since then, I've been trying so hard to get him back. I tried RS/PW/BWD for months and nothing worked ! He was still ghosting me and was giving me the cold shoulder and i have tried reaching out to him,but nothing budged. And I realized that I was too attached to the outcome and that I was still having a low vibration despite how I 'forced' or I'd say 'faked' myself into thinking I was happy and in alignment. When deep down, I knew I wasn't. I was still stalking him on social media every single day, like after I do PW/BWD/RS, i would check up on him to see if anything worked when I know I should let it go. 

Anyway, So recently, I found out that he got into a relationship with a new girl in our town and I was devastated. Like that broke me. I was at the verge of giving up. He seemed serious about her like he has met her family and she has met his and they even made it Facebook official. I immediately consulted Veronica and she told me to stay away from social media and focus on myself, basically heal myself. And my instinct kicked in and told me to do the same thing. So I deactivated all of my social media accounts just so I could refrain myself from stalking and just seeing their pics on my timeline would crush me. And then I told myself to just heal...

I tried so hard to not think bout them only cause I don't wanna give them anymore energy and I started meditating every morning. I would do Agnes's self love meditations and I would pray everyday, thanking God everyday for all my blessings and for just being alive and I would listen to subliminals that would encourage self-love, confidence and forgiveness every night to sleep. I'd also try to distract

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