Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Your person wants you too » 5/22/2017 3:03 pm |
HappyManifesting wrote:
80saeaak wrote:
HappyManifesting wrote:
Hi people, this is my second post on this forum (even though I never got any replies on the first one 😅)
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I hope you all are doing well. Also, for the ones who asked the Universe for a sign for whatever it is that they desire, take this as a sign that your manifestation is near. So cheer up!
So I was thinking about people saying that if we desire a person, they desire us too cause desire is a two way street. But then when we talk about exes, how is it possible that the one who decided to leave us, desires us? And then I started thinking that if them leaving was a projection of our thoughts (desire back then cause c'mon Universe can't make out what we want and what we don't. It just acts on the vibrations) so how is it a two way street? It should be just us and not them, right? Wrong!
After thinking for two whole days, I kid you not, I did think about this for two days... Anyway, it just struck me that it INDEED is a two way street. How? See, thoughts become reality and that is what WE have created, thus the break up.
Now if we want them, they HAVE to want us back in order to want them because THEY are creating this reality. Maybe not consciously (most of us don't do it consciously) but subconsciously. Deep down they still have feelings for us which is why we are drawn towards them. Their subconscious mind attracts us to them, which becomes our reality. Now cause they are not consciously into us, they do not create any resistance and so they can easily manifest us. But because we have it in our conscious mind too, we create resistance and so we delay the manifestation.
Now, the manifestation HAS to come cause they want it too, but if we let our guards down, it will come instantly. Isn't it just upto us? Obviously it is.
(Also what Abraham has been saying all this time)
I feel like some sort of genuis after wasting two days after this. BUT IT MADE ME HAPPY SO WHO CARES.
:D
ALSO HAVE A WONDERFU
Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Your person wants you too » 5/22/2017 2:16 pm |
HappyManifesting wrote:
Hi people, this is my second post on this forum (even though I never got any replies on the first one 😅)
I hope you all are doing well. Also, for the ones who asked the Universe for a sign for whatever it is that they desire, take this as a sign that your manifestation is near. So cheer up!
So I was thinking about people saying that if we desire a person, they desire us too cause desire is a two way street. But then when we talk about exes, how is it possible that the one who decided to leave us, desires us? And then I started thinking that if them leaving was a projection of our thoughts (desire back then cause c'mon Universe can't make out what we want and what we don't. It just acts on the vibrations) so how is it a two way street? It should be just us and not them, right? Wrong!
After thinking for two whole days, I kid you not, I did think about this for two days... Anyway, it just struck me that it INDEED is a two way street. How? See, thoughts become reality and that is what WE have created, thus the break up.
Now if we want them, they HAVE to want us back in order to want them because THEY are creating this reality. Maybe not consciously (most of us don't do it consciously) but subconsciously. Deep down they still have feelings for us which is why we are drawn towards them. Their subconscious mind attracts us to them, which becomes our reality. Now cause they are not consciously into us, they do not create any resistance and so they can easily manifest us. But because we have it in our conscious mind too, we create resistance and so we delay the manifestation.
Now, the manifestation HAS to come cause they want it too, but if we let our guards down, it will come instantly. Isn't it just upto us? Obviously it is.
(Also what Abraham has been saying all this time)
I feel like some sort of genuis after wasting two days after this. BUT IT MADE ME HAPPY SO WHO CARES.
:D
ALSO HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY :')
I don't mean to burst
…LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Why do many contributors not get back with their exes? » 5/15/2017 12:30 pm |
My guess is that these people aren't working on self love first. Most of the posts here are desperate and depressing. If you don't love yourself and work in the root of the problems by yourself, the problems will continue. Even without techniques, more often when people get back together than not, it's distant. People are hesitant about repeating the same problems. I wouldn't blame distance and hesitation on the technique so much as I would blame it on people worried more about getting an ex back than learning to be complete without them.
Calling all success stories! 🎉👏🏼 » LOA works! » 5/14/2017 9:18 am |
Bellecat wrote:
80saeaak wrote:
Seal wrote:
I haven't been on this forum much since manifesting my love back into my life. What others might deem as hopeless became a reality for me. My love and I are dating again after a brief reconciling of friendship. Her other suitor is out of the picture, and we are exclusive now. I plan on proposing soon, as she is the one for me. The purpose of my post is to encourage others and to give testimony that this LOA stuff works. Not only for love, but in other aspects of your life as well. Thank you all for the information that was provided here. I wish you all success in your life pursuits. I bid adieu, and live long and prosper.
I don't mean to be nosy, but can you message me with your story? How serious was the other relationship? What techniques did you use and how?
It's NOT about techniques etc, it's about having a SOLID belief and having self love & focusing on YOUR life.
The more I read about it, the more I'm understanding that. I don't do a set technique and switch it up, but I know it works.
I was watching a video from Agnes Vivarelli last night where she and Dan Radiostyle talk about how long they worked on manifesting a specific person (both 4+ years on the same person), but what I found interesting is that Agnes says if you're doing any manifestation work, 75% of your meditations should be self love and the other 25% should be manifestation work. I don't think I've ever seen anyone break it down like that, but it's such an important step that I think too many overlook.
Law of Attraction Discussion » Social pages and a relationships » 5/05/2017 5:10 pm |
There must be a level of trust in any relationship. I use both Facebook and Instagram (it's a picture sharing form of social media. Same idea as Facebook, but without statuses). I like many men's pictures and follow many pages of very good looking men, along with parenting, humor, relationship, LOA, and other random pages. I don't think anything of it to like anything. I think people take social media too seriously, but I also think technology has changed how we communicate and makes relationships harder. My thought are don't let it bother you unless you see a reason to be bothered. If you can't trust a man, why would you want to be with him anyway?
LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » They don't always come back? » 5/04/2017 9:06 am |
Lanie says the technique itself ALWAYS works. She doesn't say anywhere that I've read that it always gets the person back. Your thoughts are ingrained in her head every time, but the visualizations have to come from a pure loving heart. How they feel about those thoughts is another story...
I once read something at the start of my journey that hit me hard. Have you ever had someone obsess over you? It's not a welcoming and loving feeling. It makes you feel repulsed. It's a bad energy and makes the person you're obsessing over feel the bad energy. That's why you MUST get into a good mindset first.
LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Should I do something? » 5/04/2017 9:00 am |
happyhan20 wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
It annoys me when people say things about putting themselves down because they haven't heard from a random person they met once in a bar. I made a quite lengthy post about this subject a month or two back. It happened to me and I wasted a whole year of my life pining for someone I didn't know.
In these situations it's not about you because they don't know enough about you to reject you. It's about them.
No need whatsoever in this context for putting yourself down.Hey Flamingo,
Yes I agree I do. I don't know why I'm doing this to myselfI guess what I meant is how can I get the mindset that I am worthy and not to be so sad that this is happening?
After my ex I just feel so rejected and my confidence has hit a low again 😣
Here's the thing: you wont manifest anything if you don't love yourself and feel great. I would suggest not doing any technique outside of maybe EFT tapping and self-love meditation for a few weeks. Not only will it not work, but it may make the situation worse by pushing back manifestations. It's very unlikely your vibration is making him feel good towards you if your vibration isn't good.
Also, think about this: He's a stranger. Truly a random person. No one should make you feel like this, but especially not a stranger. This is a very clear self love thing.
Help me align please... 🙈 » Misleading Signs? » 5/02/2017 10:21 am |
I waited a month for the sign. The thing is, other signs were coming during the wait. Undeniable signs. If he's communicating more and you're running into him, don't worry about the seagulls. Those two things are better than the sign.
LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Techniques used. » 5/01/2017 4:28 pm |
Sanshi wrote:
80saeaak wrote:
I guess I'm just too new to this to understand the problem here. I did say in the original post that I get my vibration up by getting to my happy place. Rereading I do understand where you're coming from. Yes. I believe it and feel it as is happening. Often I feel tears in my eyes from joy. I don't know if that's correct, but it's overwhelming bliss during. If I don't feel that, I stop.
The problem is (it's not really a problem, it's pretty good actually) that you have a guidance system - your emotions - that shows you the way to where you want to be. When you look at something you don't want, it's impossible to feel good about it, because your guidance is telling you that this is something you don't prefer. You have three possibilities here. You can stop looking at it all together which can be hard, dependent on what it is. You can find better feeling thoughts about that thing which means in the end that you still direct your attention to something different (to use your example, you could appreciate the people who repair your toilet or whatever). Or you can continue to look at it and trying to stay positive. For me, that sounds like "Damn, this is crap. I really don't like that, but it doesn't help to complain about it". That's still better than standing around and complaining about it of course, but it is different from shifting your thoughts and feelings deliberately. Hope that makes it a little clearer.
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And again, I don't know how you feel. I may be wrong. I just can tell from my own experience that I tried to get happy after the breakup in order to get my ex back and yes, I had moments in which I really felt good, but it was more pasting the good feeling over all the resistance I held in my stomach. And I think I am not alone with that Many people do that. You can see that, when they have a "bad" day after a really good one. If you are really happy, you just don't get depressed, because some minor reason like seeing your e
LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » Techniques used. » 5/01/2017 10:33 am |
Sanshi wrote:
80saeaak wrote:
I agree, but life, ya know. No one can always remain positive about everything. No one says "my toilet is leaking and I got a $300 water bill! Hooray!!".
True, but you just proved my point with this argumentation. So you basically told us that you look at the thing you don't want and try to stay positive. You can do that, but it won't get you the results you want and surely won't make you happy.
80saeaak wrote:
I disagree also, though. I read a book that literally changed my life and I woke up one day choosing not to be sad anymore. It is very easy to shift your happiness if you work on it.
You can disagree, but that doesn't change the laws of the universe. If you could make such a big jump, you already had everything you want and would live happily ever after. I have never said that it's hard to be happy, I just said that you can't jump from depression to happiness within a day.
I guess I'm just too new to this to understand the problem here. I did say in the original post that I get my vibration up by getting to my happy place. Rereading I do understand where you're coming from. Yes. I believe it and feel it as is happening. Often I feel tears in my eyes from joy. I don't know if that's correct, but it's overwhelming bliss during. If I don't feel that, I stop.