Hisoneandonly wrote:

I should just giveup on him right... he just posted a picture on snapchat with a girl...he's moving on... what should i do...he really just dont love me anymore..i feel so hurt right now, it's an endless battle of the brain and the head. Maybe i shouldnt work so hard, he dont even seems like he cares. This is not what i want but why. I tried so hard.. i used to attract him back even he's with other girl and even when he said he chose the other girl over me,but this time the condition is totally different. Please tell me what should i do and think now.i felt so low self esteem because that girl seems so pretty.. maybe even better than i am.

Really it's so important to not focus on his pages on social media as it can be so hurtful. Don't even go there because they are not a part of the reality you want to create. Every time you see a pic of him with some other girl it will just make you feel terrible and will send out the vibration of him being with other women, which wil carry on and on and on.... So avoid those pages totally.

Forget that they exist and create in your mind the reality that you want with this guy instead. Now Im sure that you are every bit as pretty as these other girls and there was definitely something in you that attracted him in the first place. Maybe he even told you that he loved your hair or your eyes or some other feature.  There was something about you that he liked really a lot, and so imagine that he feels that way again. Remember how he was when he was chasing you and wanting your company and your attention. Remember all those details clearly, but maybe make him even more passionate in your mind's eye so that he only has eyes for you! Think only of how you want things to be with him. Imagine him telling you that he knows in his heart that you are the only one for him! Just focus on the positive and forget the negative completely because if he had those feelings before, then they will stil be there in him some

Thanks nixsilva!

Tinkerbell wrote:

The ironic thing about this post is that deelish will come back saying she manifested him back after she gave up

Yeah that was going through my mind too. So often it happens that way.
 

Sending you hugs, Deelish. It's sad to think that you are going.   Take care and do come back if you change your mind.

barbidoll wrote:

I will too Making a list of what I need to do to get my body mind and heart ready for what I have desired for ages I have gained a ton of weight becuse I eat to fill the void Starting right now I will follow a healthy diet If anyone had a diet plan that worked for them please share Thanks in advance

I was quite chubby as a teenager, and dieting seemed to make me hungrier and fatter! Lol. But then I gave up dieting and listened instead to my hunger/fullness signals. I ate what I wanted but avoided eating in general when I wasn't hungry. The weight just fell off without dieting, and it stayed off. In fact nowadays I have trouble keeping my weight up.