How great that you found such an uplifting book! Yes, please do give us the lessons!

Wow that is awesome, Vera! You're so good at manifesting this stuff!

Hisoneandonly wrote:

I love the ending too and I keep visualise the ending! But that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles. I can't help but think of them both. I'm scared. I always trying to turn things around. But there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles...yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and maybe I'm accepting it...But right now, it's overwhelming.

Well it's perfectly understandable that you are feeling this way and really, I'm sure that all of us here know exactly what you are going through. However part of the problem as I see it, is that you are putting up a whole lot of resistance to getting what you really want. That resistance is like a big wall that stands between your guy and you right now. So somehow that wall needs to be dissolved so that you can begin to manifest in the way that you want to.
One thing I notice is that you are saying the word "but" a lot: 
 "I keep visualise the ending! BUT that feeling feel so untrue, maybe it's because I see too many of obstacles."
 "I always trying to turn things around. BUT there's too much of distraction of the obstacles and the impossibles"
"yesterday when I think of them, I feel okay... and I'm accepting it...BUT now it's overwhelming"
So it's like you want to do this, but you've got that word "but" standing in your way. That word is your wall of resistance. What if you were to watch yourself and make a point of getting rid of the "buts"?
Imagine that there are no obstacles,and no "buts". How would things be if everything would be just as you want it to be with him? How would he treat you? What would he say to you?
Try to maybe write down a secne about being with him exactly as you want it to be. But don't include the word "but" in your thoughts as you write it. Then look at what you have written every day and feel good about it. There is no such thing as "but"! In loa we really can have everything, without exception.

Cherished wrote:

Ok.. So you started that post wonderfully well! And then you shot yourself in the foot by adding how much your ex loved his ex! You are the only person who can possibly know if the same thing will happen to you.. Because you are writing the story! So how does it end? You tell us? You've got everyone here cheering you on for a happy ending.. HOW does it end?!?!?!

Ok let's try to reword what Hisoneandonly has written a bit...." I KNOW I can have him back asap  and we WILL have our wonderful relationship together again! I often visualise it when I'm having my bath, and if sometimes the bad experiences do pop up then I remind myself how much he loves me, how crazy he is about me, how he can't get me out of his mind.  He has only me in his heart and he wants me to be his girl forever!"

HisOneAndOnly, if you get any negative thoughts popping up, take them and turn them right around. You absolutely can have things the way you want. So many people on this forum have turned things around. Many of them were at such a low point with their guys when they started out with the LoA, but they have had simply mind blowing results! If they can do it, so can you for sure. But you have to be focusing only on what you want, and throw what you don't want into an imaginary trash can! 

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Debbie wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

I should just giveup on him right... he just posted a picture on snapchat with a girl...he's moving on... what should i do...he really just dont love me anymore..i feel so hurt right now, it's an endless battle of the brain and the head. Maybe i shouldnt work so hard, he dont even seems like he cares. This is not what i want but why. I tried so hard.. i used to attract him back even he's with other girl and even when he said he chose the other girl over me,but this time the condition is totally different. Please tell me what should i do and think now.i felt so low self esteem because that girl seems so pretty.. maybe even better than i am.

Really it's so important to not focus on his pages on social media as it can be so hurtful. Don't even go there because they are not a part of the reality you want to create. Every time you see a pic of him with some other girl it will just make you feel terrible and will send out the vibration of him being with other women, which wil carry on and on and on.... So avoid those pages totally.

Forget that they exist and create in your mind the reality that you want with this guy instead. Now Im sure that you are every bit as pretty as these other girls and there was definitely something in you that attracted him in the first place. Maybe he even told you that he loved your hair or your eyes or some other feature.  There was something about you that he liked really a lot, and so imagine that he feels that way again. Remember how he was when he was chasing you and wanting your company and your attention. Remember all those details clearly, but maybe make him even more passionate in your mind's eye so that he only has eyes for you! Think only of how you want things to be with him. Imagine him telling you that he knows in his heart that you are the only one for him! Just focus on the positive and forget the negative completely because if he had those feelings before, then

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