That's not rude. I actually really appreciate the constructive criticism, so thank you!! And those are two really good points.
I've been thinking about the 'everyone is you pushed out' concept a lot lately which is why I've been trying to practice self love and really valuing/taking care of myself, but I should probably kick it up a notch. You're also right about absence. I didn't realize it, but that's exactly what I'm doing. I can't continue to notice the absence of him and still manifest. Any suggestions on how to not focus on the absence?

Hi everyone!

I've been on a journey to manifest my love back for a couple of months now. I'll admit I wanted this to be a quick fix. But life showed me that I had a lot of resistance and limiting beliefs surrounding him and relationships in general that I needed to clear up. I realized that my previous thoughts and feelings were so negative and terrible and had manifested my then current situation. Unfortunately, I even manifested a third party into the situation. So, I decided to clear up my beliefs and focus on me. I did this by listening to a lot of Veronica and Agnes's videos, meditation, visualization, positive affirmations, taking better care of my outward appearance and doing things that made me happy.

It's been a few months and I'm in a great place now! I'm taking better care of myself than I ever have before and overall I feel great. I appreciate everything in my life and feel full and abundant without him. I'm so glad I didn't manifest him right away because I've learned so much valuable information about myself and LOA during this process. To be honest, I don't even need him it feels awesome! That being said, my new mindset has manifested money, job opportunities, old lovers and new lovers (none of which I have entertained), and old and new friends. Through all of this I can't seem to manifest my love back. I've even tried to look within and see if this is a true desire of mine and that I want it for the right reasons. Each time I come to the same conclusion: yes, I want him. I love our connection, how he loves me for me and for so many other reasons. I realized that I just needed to love me first and I do now, but he's no where to be found. I've even reached out in a friendly manner just to see how he was doing and that conversation went no where. He wasn't trying to talk to me. 

I believe he's still with this other girl, but I haven't been putting much energy into that so I'm not completely sure.

I'm so thankful for this new mindset. I feel free, i

Hi Everyone!

I've been using the LOA and a few techniques (meditation, RS, and visualization) for almost two months now trying to get my love back into my life. It hasn't been easy. A few weeks in, I found out he was dating someone new. It hurt, but it made me realize two things: 1) I still had some resistance to clean up and 2) I shouldn't focus on my current reality. I've had a lot of ups and downs, but through it all I've done everything I can to make myself happy. I started taking care of my outward appearance more, putting more effort into work, and not being so hard on myself (emotionally and physically).

About a week ago I felt a major shift in my being/vibration and since then it's only gotten better. I'm a lot more calm and centered. I no longer obsess about my desire or what more I can be doing because I know that it's mine. I put the new girl he's seeing out of my mind and a few days ago I noticed that she's disappeared from social media. She doesn't post at all. I really feel like I manifested that which is pretty cool. I decided not to focus on her and it's like she completely disappeared from my physical reality. Anyway, my desire feels so real. I know he misses me and is going to reach out any day now. We're going to have a beautiful reconciliation beyond my wildest dreams. I'm expectant and hopeful, but calm. He is mine vibrationally and I'm telling the universe that I'm ready for him physically. Soooo I can't wait to post my full success story here soon.

Thanks to everyone who posts encouraging messages and pieces of advice. It has really helped me stay on the right track mentally. I wish everyone the best in their manifesting journey. I'm sending all of you and your situations positive energy and I'm hoping you can do the same for me! Happy manifesting!
 

This past week was the best week of my life!! I could feel the shifting in my being. My love came back. He wants a loving, committed and fulfilling relationship with me. I'm SO excited. I can barely contain it. I've been smiling nonstop for days now. Our relationship is so different than before. He's affectionate, caring, attentive and affirms his love for me everyday. He wants me with him all of the time and when we spend time apart he's planning our next interaction. I'm so whole and complete and in a state of unconditional happiness with my life that I'm not concerned with what he's doing. I'm in love with taking care of me. Also, my financial situation has drastically improved. I had $10,000 come into my experience last week as well. So, all of my stress and worry about my finances has disappeared. I know that the LOA is real and that the universe is abundant and expanding for me!!


Well, that was fun  I love scripting!