Buying freshly made bread and enjoying the smell
Choosing someone a gift
Helping someone in some way, giving them a hug, etc
Strolling by the river
Smelling jasmin or orange blossom
Opening the window when it rains and smelling the rain
Hearing the sound of a fountain in summer
Tending to all my plants on the balcony
Picking some of the vegetables that I have grown myself and then cooking them
Going window shopping
Watching vintage movies
Taking a walk through the pretty old touristic areas of my town and looking at the art nouveau buildings, the roman columns, the old moorish walls, etc.
Having some quiet time to myself first thing in the morning and listening to the birds
eating a square or two of top quality dark chocolate
Meditating
listening to Tibetan wind chimes
Taking a walk outside in autumn, when the leaves are all Golden and make a crunchy sound when I walk
Going out to see the Christmas lights or Christmas markets when it's that time of year
Visiting thrift shops and "hippie" markets.
Curling up in a comfortable corner with a good book
Enjoying a nice glass of wine either at home or out
Listening to my favourite music and singing along while I clean
Putting on happy music that I loved when I was a kid and dancing to it
Belly dancing
Trying out a new recipe from a cookery book
Making some childhood favourite dessert  like my Granma used to make
Yoga/Sun salute/The 5 Tibetan rites
Going to sit in a Street café and watching the world go by
Walking through a gorgeous park full of natural beauty
Having a home beauty afternoon where have a face mask/hair mask, and various body-beautifying treatments.
Eating out in a restaurant (I love going to eat Sushi, or Indian or Mexican food especially)
Going to music festivals and concerts
Doing creative visualization, making visión boards, focus wheels, creation boxes, and other fun loa stuff
Using my favourite perfumes (sandalwood, neroli, orange blossom, or vanilla)

 

Yes do join us. This forum is so supportive!

Aww Veronica it's so great to see you! That is absolutely wonderful. Thank you for your amazing videos, your wonderful help, and for being there for us all! :-)

Yesterday in the morning I was going back through this forum at some of the older threads to see if there was anything that I could learn from, and I came across one that Cherished had made about doing the experiments in Pam Grout's "E-Squared". I had seen some of that thread before, but this time I decided to do one of the experiments (Experiment 2) and I set the intention that I would start seeing purple feathers. Anyway, I forgot about it, but later I was out looking at a market that specialized in South American and Native American stuff. A stall selling beautifully coloured  "dream catchers" caught my eye and I went over to take a look. And one of them was adorned with the most gorgeous purple feathers. I really laughed to myself inside when I found it as it showed to me yet again how easily loa works when you don't have any emotional weight on it. About ten minutes later I passed another stall selling earrings made out of purple feathers, too.

Hisoneandonly wrote:

Cherished wrote:

Go back to page one of this thread. Start there, for it is a treasure chest of wonderful words of wisdom, advice and encouragement from many people.

 
I just finish reading all of the advice and so on. And I have only one thing in mind is that just focus on the thing I want, and ignore the current reality like living in my own world. Is this correct? But how bout the HOWS?

Forget the hows too. Forget the hows and the buts! lol.
When you send out your intention to get him back, remember that you don't need to figure out how it will manifest. That's the job of the universe to figure out the how. Even if right now you obectively see all kinds of obstacles as to why he can't come back, just push those right aside and tell yourself very firmly that the universe will do the work and that your job is to sit back and wait for it to happen. Tell yourself that he CAN come back and he WILL come back. You don't know how it will happen, but just send out your intention daily and then wait patiently for it to manifest. It could be instant. It could be in three days. It could be in three months. But you can be sure that the more you let go and allow it to happen, then the Universe will have no choice but to make it happen and the sooner you will get yor wish come true. Trust it.
Oh and best of luck about the exams! Sending you vibes!