PixelPie wrote:

ShootingStar wrote:

When you say 'I don't want this to be the reason he comes back' I feel that you might be risking resistance, as in, if you think that way in a few months time you might start to feel insecure and unsure about his reasons for coming back which really don't matter...what matters is that you and him are having a family together and you and him are now automatically closer than ever and you and him have a huge chance of staying together as long as you keep your positivity and vibration high Don't question the how you came back together, that's what I would do.. He doesn't need to come back to you because of a baby so technically in this day and age, he's coming back because he wants to be with you anyway

I agree don't worry about how. You are doing so great I'm rooting for you 😄

 
Thank you so much

Yesterday morning I had an inspired action to text him telling him I had something for him and if it was ok to come over. He said yes of course. I went to Planned Parenthood to verify my condition and that's what I was going to give him. The slip confirming with due date.

I went to his house, handed him the slip and said "today must be the day for good news" (he just got a new job yesterday as well) and walked away. Obviously at first he was in shock. He asked how could this happen with me being on the IUD and all? He didn't seem very happy but I gave him space and allowed him to think about what just happened. After awhile I went in his room and laid down with him. He grabbed me, wrapped his arms around me and held my belly for a long time. We stood that way for awhile. Eventually he ended up saying...we need to come up with a plan. Then he started talking about how we need to hustle and grind and help promote each others businesses. WE need to do this, WE need to do that is what he kept saying. My heart just melted. He's ALL in!!!! I'm am so happy and excited!!! So grateful that the universe delivered and happy I've been in the receiving mode lately. I knew it was coming, I felt it. Wasn't expecting it to happen in this order but hey, I'll take it!

I admit, last night I had a few minutes where I got scared and started second guessing. He saw me kinda freaking out and then he started freaking out. But, I was able to recognize those thoughts and get rid of them and refocus. One of the things I said was knowing the only reason why he's here is...ya. Not going to say it aloud or write it down but I'm sure u can guess what I said. He pretty much said he wouldn't be here if he didn't want to be. We left it at that and went to sleep.

This morning I woke up with his arms around me and him touching my belly. He whispered in my ear, he's doing this with me because he loves me!!! Awe <3 just what I needed to hear.

So now, I vow to stay focused and keep visualizing and l

alston326 wrote:

Hi IAMaCreator!!! I think you're totally on the right track. You are definitely feeling the experience as if it's happening and the fact that you're emotional, in a good way, is evidence of you doing the correct technique!! Keep it up!

Good to know! Thank you so much for your help! 
 

I know this is an older thread but I'm hoping it will be bumped and someone can give me some advice on the matter.

My situation is a bit different. I have a small tie with my guy. He's actually paying the car payment for my vehicle (long story).  Its been about 6 weeks since the split and since then, I've been using the LOA to attract him back. This is actually the second time me doing so. It worked last year so I'm certain it will work again. Last year there were no ties however so the NC rule was easier to stick to. (Ya I know. I had him and created a bad role for him to play 😢)

Anyway, I've been doing PW and RS on him. Before 2 weeks ago, I hadn't seen him in about a month. We texed here and there but HE was the one who usually initiated most contact. Sometimes it was to say GM or how's your day, and about my car. Little things like that. Usually maybe once a week or so. I didn't want to ignore him because I didn't want him to stop doing it and, I wasn't sure if it was the LOA working or even the techniques. My responses back would be minimal though, I made sure of it. He even called me a few times to "talk". When that happened, I would talk about all the fun things I was doing and so on. I can tell one time he seemed like he wanted to say more then he did.

Anyway, 2 weeks ago, Easter Sunday he texted me wishing me a Happy Easter. I used Verionicas texting technique to get a text and I did!!! Not exactly what I had visualized but hey, at least it was something. But...later that night, he started texting me again asking if I was home and if my kids were there. I was thinking...why would he ask that question if he wasnt planning anything? I knew he was going to contact me soon to give me the $$ for my car payment so I wasn't sure if that's why he was texting me but no...he obviously had another agenda lol. I was definitely making him BURN!!! He was wanting to come over but it didn't end up happening. The next day he contacted me again asking what I was doin

Hi!

I have a question about the PW technique. I actually do both RS and PW at different times of the day, or I mix the two together but, I notice that whenever I'm doing the PW part and "hearing" him tell me all the things I want to hear, my eyes start welling up with tears. To me, it's tears of joy and happiness from hearing what I've been waiting for. Lanie says that you have to FEEL the emotions. Just clarifying that this is what's happening here. Don't want to be doing anything to block my intentions.

Anyone else experience this?