Lanie Stevens wrote:

iinikkii wrote:

So I just checked out lanies forum.. Think I like this one better. Reason being is because I got confused with one of the post where she says whatever about free will (if they choose not to)... So which is it? It either works or it doesnt.. Free will or not.

Everyone has free will.  Think about it for a minute.  You may really, really, really want that piece of cake but you abstain.  It doesn't mean the desire isn't there.  You love cake so the love is there, too.  But you ultimately have the free will to choose whether to have it or not.  

My books can put the desire, passion, thoughts and feelings there but the man has the choice to respond or not.  My ex didn't respond for a year.  He is definitely hardheaded.  But when he did he had more love, more passion and more commitment than he ever had!  He missed me every day and thought about me constantly.  He used his free will to not contact me but it didn't mean anything.  Eventually, he could not resist the temptation.  I was that delicious piece of cake in front of him 24/7 because I used my technique on him.  LOL

Big Hugs,
Lanie

I loved this.  There have been times I have missed and longed for a person but had the will power to stay strong and not contact. It didn't mean they were not constantly on my mind though.

I'd rather it take longer for the person to come back, like Lanie' situation, and have it be 100x better, than to have him come back to the same issues and problems, desperation, and negativity we had before. 

On a side note this is my 5th day of RS and even though the target hasn't contacted, 2 ex boyfriends have.  Is it normal to get sleepy while doing RS?
 

I bought all three books today and read the first two in one sitting.  I can't wait to soon be sharing my results with all of you