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Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Bit confused... » 6/03/2019 7:06 am

Rainflower
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Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

 
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U

thank you! I'll listen tonight when home from work!
 

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Bit confused... » 6/03/2019 6:00 am

Rainflower
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Bit confused... » 6/03/2019 1:53 am

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yasm wrote:

You need to let go, trust the process, and know that the timing will be just right. Who knows why he didn't respond... who cares? Maybe he was thinking about the game, his other friends, whatever. You can't let him not saying anything disappoint you. It doesn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things. Feel as though you already have the desired relationship with him; focus and dwell on those feelings 

thanks! I appreciate that! I think my confusion came from the setting of intentions that didn't really work. But you're right. I wasn't really disappointed, just confused, hence the question! thanks again!
 

Ex/Specific Person Discussion » Bit confused... » 6/03/2019 12:55 am

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Hi all, 
my sp regularly streams on Twitch (video games) and you can join in chat along with others where he replies whilst streaming (hope this makes sense lol... sorry!)

Well he streamed for 4 hours last night and I was ignored for those 4 hours. Even when his friend who also joined in the stream replied to something I said my sp did not say a word. It confuses me as I have been doing the 5*55 (i love the daily chats I have with... ), I set the intention that we were going to talk and all of that but nothing. I hadn't logged into one of his streams for quite a while but it didn't feel great to be ignored. 

What did I do wrong?
Thanks

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/24/2019 1:06 am

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Dan2015 wrote:

It’s crazy what our minds can do honestly One of the reasons why I try avoiding social media especially a SP(off topic but yeah). Cause I feel checking social media non stop you’re(people in general) are just looking for problems

Honestly. I’ve been where you are. You start getting random thoughts of a 3rd party. At first it’s not so bad. But then it just multiplies I’ve had times where regarding a SP I’ll manifest them having a 3rd party randomly. It’ll either be an ex, a new person, etc. there was this time. Where I started thinking about a 3rd party(plus I saw screenshots of someone mentioning it). And my SP said they were on a break Cause they were away somewhere(I forgot where).

In the past. I would have gotten mad at them. But lol it’s been multiple people and I manifested a 3rd party for all of them. At the end of the day, it was all me. I was the only common dominator and how I thought. We can create anything but it can be good or bad I feel like most people are better at attracting what they don’t ent opposed to what they do want. Is because in a weird way, we have more confidence in what we don’t want happening. I feel like a lot of us grew up with the mindset. “Expect the worse but be ready for the best”. So we’ve been almost conditioned since birth to think negative things are going to happen

I mean. When we are younger, we don’t really listen to that. That’s why as kids we manifested a lot of amazing things, cause our imaginations were “allowed” to be “crazy”. But as we get older. We get into the habit of just assuming the worse is going to happen. So we most likely visualize, think, etc even subconsciously that what we don’t want is going to take off

Honestly. From the more I learned about creating our reality, etc. I don’t even think we can blame a sp(though I’m sure Cynthia and others can say better than I can) for cheating, not being faithful, 3rd parties, etc. because a lot of times whe

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/23/2019 8:15 am

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Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Cynthia wrote:


 


You can train your mind to turn away from the undesirable and replace it with what you want. I've done it. It was really hard to begin with. Some fool sent me a screenshot of something that he had to know I wouldn't want to see, I think it was about a month ago or so. At first it was all I could think about, but I kept on imagining what I wanted instead of what I saw every time I thought of that screenshot, which might not even be true and doesn't matter if it is. It got easier and easier, and now I hardly ever think of it, and soon I won't think of it at all. Show your mind who's boss.

I am sorry you had that screenshot to deal with. My guy is actually a master hider, so if he doesn't say it out right you won't know it. And given that all I know about him is online, not telling something is very easy. It's just that he is attending a convention in Australia for longer than I would expect him too and he has been "babysitting" some friends dog for a few months now and they both ping up to me as being suspicious when it might be utterly and completely innocent. Well the thoughts just started creeping in properly today, that's why I'm immediately reaching out to get some help!! 

 

Thanks, but the reason I made my comment was not to focus on the screenshot but to say what I did to get it out of my mind and just to focus on what I want.

Ok,thank you. I am going to occupy my mind much more to get out of this thought pattern. 
 

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/23/2019 6:46 am

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Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Cynthia wrote:


 
Since imagining creates reality, and you don't want a third party involved, if you want a relationship with your SP, you should be living in the end of having that relationship and not putting any mental energy into there being a third party. Your imaginal activity should only be focussed on what you want, not what you don't want.

yes, that's right and I feel I was the one who attracted the 3rd party 8 months ago.  Still I want to stop the thoughts from even entering my brain, how do I do that? Thanks
 

 


You can train your mind to turn away from the undesirable and replace it with what you want. I've done it. It was really hard to begin with. Some fool sent me a screenshot of something that he had to know I wouldn't want to see, I think it was about a month ago or so. At first it was all I could think about, but I kept on imagining what I wanted instead of what I saw every time I thought of that screenshot, which might not even be true and doesn't matter if it is. It got easier and easier, and now I hardly ever think of it, and soon I won't think of it at all. Show your mind who's boss.

I am sorry you had that screenshot to deal with. My guy is actually a master hider, so if he doesn't say it out right you won't know it. And given that all I know about him is online, not telling something is very easy. It's just that he is attending a convention in Australia for longer than I would expect him too and he has been "babysitting" some friends dog for a few months now and they both ping up to me as being suspicious when it might be utterly and completely innocent. Well the thoughts just started creeping in properly today, that's why I'm immediately reaching out to get some help!! 

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/23/2019 6:13 am

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PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Cynthia wrote:


 
Since imagining creates reality, and you don't want a third party involved, if you want a relationship with your SP, you should be living in the end of having that relationship and not putting any mental energy into there being a third party. Your imaginal activity should only be focussed on what you want, not what you don't want.

yes, that's right and I feel I was the one who attracted the 3rd party 8 months ago.  Still I want to stop the thoughts from even entering my brain, how do I do that? Thanks
 

If you're living in the end, you will not include any 3rd party in that imagining. In day to day stuff going about your business, just change what you're thinking about (even in relation to the "SP" you talk about). Just think about something else.

ok thank you for your input.

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/23/2019 5:23 am

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Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

Just curious, I have noticed a few things with my SP that may suggest there is a third party involved (cannot check myself as we live in different countries), I have zero evidence but an overactive imagination and it bugs me!! 
(I know he was dating someone 8 months ago roughly but unsure if this is still the case)

How do I stop this or stop this from happening? Thank you!

 
Since imagining creates reality, and you don't want a third party involved, if you want a relationship with your SP, you should be living in the end of having that relationship and not putting any mental energy into there being a third party. Your imaginal activity should only be focussed on what you want, not what you don't want.

yes, that's right and I feel I was the one who attracted the 3rd party 8 months ago.  Still I want to stop the thoughts from even entering my brain, how do I do that? Thanks
 

LOA Questions and Teachings 🙋 » What if you start suspecting a third party? » 5/23/2019 4:12 am

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Just curious, I have noticed a few things with my SP that may suggest there is a third party involved (cannot check myself as we live in different countries), I have zero evidence but an overactive imagination and it bugs me!! 
(I know he was dating someone 8 months ago roughly but unsure if this is still the case)

How do I stop this or stop this from happening? Thank you!

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