Aquilina wrote:

Any suggestions on how to make visualisation not feel like a chore? I am busy with work a lot of the time like most people and when I get time to do it I have this sort of nervousness like right, this is my chance, I have to do it well. But the times when I do it well, are when it's not planned. BUT, I want to be consistent...

I know what I have to do, I get it completely. It's just doing it that I'm stuck with, because I haven't found something that works. I would love to be able to fall asleep in the wish fulfilled, and I have noticed positive changes after I have done that a couple of times as a complete fluke.

I like scripting, I've done loads of that. But I didn't know whether to keep on doing that or to visualize as well. People have advised me that you don't need to keep doing it again and again, but the belief has to changed somehow and I know that when I have intense visualisations, I do notice changes in the physical world.

But at the moment it feels like a chore. I asked myself a while ago, how much do you want this, and to what extent are you willing to go? I really would spend a few hours visualising every single day, I just struggle to do it because I feel like I haven't developed the skill, and because of that, it's sometimes a complete mess of random thoughts, and other times it works. So because I don't know if I'm gonna enjoy it on a particular day, it feels like work. Any suggestions?

I also have noticed that touch makes it feel the most real, and that is the thing I find harder to imagine. Not sure if maybe my mind needs to be more relaxed in general, to do it properly. Because sometimes, I will catch myself imagining and it feels real and I wasn't trying, like daydreaming.

 

Hey! I understand you. The "chore" feeling sucks. But you don't have to be in a meditative state to manifest. Actually, you inspired me to talk about it in a separate post. I just wrote it. Please, read it and I hope it helps!

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akuma wrote:

OMG Your explanation was so clear .It just calmed the anxiety inside me. Thank you so much for helping .I just have a question....i find my situation really hard lol(u said not to find it hard tho) so i cheated but it was something which just happened. I had always love my boyfriend and still do it. He really things a lot negative about me. Will he change his mind. Also I must admit that situation has become better between us. But still he hold grudges . I try to keep up with everything u said ....So my boyfriend will remove the negatives isn't ?  Do I need to do something extra for healing him and removing grudges ? I do ho'oponopono for his healing......Do have any suggestions about my situation

Hey, I'm glad to see that the post has helped you somehow.

So, your situation is pretty easy, no problem. Actually, there's no "hard" situation, it's just the power we give to it. You are God, remember that. I suggest you (and everybody here) read Neville Goddard's books. 

Visualize him treating you exactly the way you want to be treated. You don't need to only sit quiet and do it in a "meditative state". Everything is meditative states but in different degrees. Remember, you can't stop thinking, so you're creating all the time, not only when you sit quietly. So bring this idea to your daily life. Live your life in your mind exactly the way you would live it if everything was already solved. 

But, as I said in the example I used in the post, be patient with him and with the manifestation process. If you notice you're becoming frustrated by not seeing "signs of change", always remember that A LOT of things are happening "in the dark", behind the scenes. A chain of events is occurring to set things the way you want, so just ignore it when he stills treats you in a negative way and keep holding your perfect scenario in your mind. He's probably changing already, but subconsciously.

Doing "something extra" is just another strategy to the same go