I agree with you!!  Love is not about getting, it's about being full and pouring the excess out to others.  Many of us are needy so we want to take love from the other person or we want to other person to make us feel secure.  I don't need that from him anymore.  He's free to love me or not but even if he chose not to, that wouldn't affect the love that I'm giving to myself.  Agnes V has a "getting vs giving" playlist that is very helpful.

Now that my self-love is really amped up, I realize that I have some limiting beliefs about my SP (he's shy, he's not interested, he's emotionally unavailable, etc.). Besides repeating positive affirmations, what else can I do to change the beliefs I have about him and see him the way I want him to be (bold, telling me how he feels about me, etc)?

Still struggling with this a bit as it pertains to a SP. In one his his lectures Neville said its like being on top of a mountain and looking back at the path you took to get there rather than being at the bottom of the mountain, looking up and thinking "I'm going to get there."  You have to already be there in the mind first.

Can anyone help to shed even more light on this?

Thank you for sharing your journey.  I believe that self-love is so important in not only getting a person but in keeping the person.  I feel like I'm on this journey to true and deep self-love.  And to be honest?  My person is NOT at the forefront of my mind anymore!  When I learned about these techniques, I was so excited because I *knew* I would manifest him back into my life.  But very quickly, I realized that what I was doing wasn't making me feel better because (as Agnes always says) I was still trying to get love from "over there."  Now that I realize love is already here within me, what he's doing is irrelevant.  Didn't call/text/e-mail?  Whatevs.  He will eventually.  And if it ends up NOT being him, it'll be someone even better. 

Roy-LOA wrote:

1) a lot of people aren't spiritually awakened and open-minded and therefor don't or misunderstand the entire concept of what LOA & conscious creation is and how to apply it. They're just like "yeah, yeah, whatever, i just wanna try everything to get my SP" that's why the majority fails.

It seems like there's a "hump" that people who manifest successfully are able to get over.  There may be that initial small success but after that comes the contrast and that's probably where most people quit and say "this isn't working."  I was recently tempted to do the same...but my mind is much more awakened and from reading the experiences of other people, I realize that I am right on track.  Investing the time and effort in doing inner work, self-love, being more conscious of thoughts and limiting beliefs is no joke.  It's a lot easier to say "this doesn't work; woe is me" than try to focus and tweak the process.