Hi everybody,

I hope you're all well. I just wondered if anybody had any advice on the following.

One day I'm imagining the ideal relationship with an entirely new person; other days I can't seem to get my ex out of my head. However, I'm not 100% sure I want him back. That said, over the last six months, more and more signs have been popping up here, there and everywhere - lots of Ex-back advice and ads from YouTubers (I hadn't searched for anything relating to getting an ex back in years, but it's popping up all over the place!) One of the videos even had an ad underneath it with my ex's name in big bold letters, which did make me pause for a moment and was pretty hard to ignore. 
He left me four years ago, so understandably I felt as though things were unfinished as I was the dumpee. At the time he was going through a very stressful stage of training in his career, and the break up also hit him pretty hard. However, within three weeks of separating he had established a relationship with someone else who lived in another country. Four years on they are still together, happily or unhappily I am not sure and we have not spoken for at least a good couple of years.

1. I'm wrestling with guilt on the level that - should you pursue using LOA to get your ex back if he/she is with someone else? Is that morally right? However, if it's a feeling inside you that you simply can't shake, does that fall under higher self/intuition, or is it simply selfish desire?
2. I don't know why these feelings are coming up now. I have not seen or spoken to him in so long, and have since had another relationship myself. But it's just something that I can't shake.
3. I don't want to want him. I'm settling into a new career, due to move to a new location in the autumn and fully aware that there is probably a wonderful gentleman out there a lot more suited to me. But... I. Just. Can't. Shake. It. And it's becoming too hard to ignore. Therefore... Is it worth finding out?

Calling all LOA g

Hi there,

Hope you are all having a wonderful day! I just wondered if anybody has ever had any success with regards to manifesting a relationship with someone they imagined? There is a lot of information available about attracting a specific person, but I imagine the 'specific person' in this instance is more often someone who those hoping to manifest a relationship with have already met. 

Is it possible to manifest someone who you have created in your mind and who possesses all of the qualities you have imagined, but who you have never actually met and not sure if they even exist? After all, what you focus on expands and, if you have the capacity to think it, then surely it can become your reality. I just wondered if anybody on here has had any success/has any tips with this.

Thank you, and looking forward to hearing your thoughts

Common Blue