fizzy wrote:

Olive wrote:

Thanks! Yeah I know, it seems I am quite good at a mental diet for some time and tell me hw wants me, I am wonderful he is now ready and his heart is open for me and stuff and then suddenly it crashes down and I think you are being delusional! It was a guy you had two dates with, TWO! And then I question this stuff and think I am mental and that he just wasn’t that into me and I should just accept it. I don’t know what to do to get over this. To just be able to stay in the mental diet without falling out of it.

Well you need to also realize what “everyone is you pushed out” means. What this means is that the only person who has the ability to think and to create in your reality is you. Nobody has any free will except for you. People are just your creations, just like everything else. So when everything crashes down, you created that. Nothing happens that isn’t your own creation. Think of reality as exactly like a dream when you dream at night. When you dream that you had a conversation with someone, you are creating them in your dream and everything they say, right? Reality is no different.

So if you are dreaming up everything, how can you ever be delusional? There’s no such thing as ‘real’ or ‘fake’. YOU decide what’s real and what’s fake. Once you truly ‘get’ that you are just living inside of your own dream, you’ll realize you always have full control, other people aren’t ‘real’, and you never have to worry about being delusional again.

Part of me wants to reach out to him but it doesn’t feel good. I want him to reach out to me and want to meet me again on his own. I intend for that.

fizzy wrote:

Olive wrote:

Thanks! I guess I am having a hard time believing it today and I am in a bit of a bad mindset. I‘ve been telling myself he will be back since communication ended, I‘ve been visualizing my scene and meditating but nothing happened yet and I guess I just want to see proof.

Well unfortunately, looking for proof is a sure way to keep what you want from manifesting. The only proof you should need is knowing it’s done in your imagination, even if you see no evidence of it yet in physical reality. That’s the key; that’s how it manifests. I always suggest people watch the videos on the YouTube channel, Create Your Future. She explains how to keep a good mental diet, which is what you’ll need to do to get what you want.

Thanks! I already watch her and I also was quite good with my mental diet. I always say things like I intend for him to text me, he is ready now and stuff like this. But today I doubt this whole thing and ask myself if I am just delusional.

ibbyliv wrote:

Hey! The ex I'm trying to manifest a new relationship with and I got into the most beautiful, passionate, caring and loving relationship before I ruined everything with my negative thoughts. When I met him I fell in love at first sight and there was mutual attraction, but he was still in love with his ex. I was devastated for almost 6 months. Everyone kept telling me it was a lost cause. We ended up being together and head over heels for each other. I now know I manifested that although I didn't know anything about LOA back then, despite all the negativity and depression I felt during that period, just because I had this inexplicable strong faith that there is more between us. He had rejected me multiple times before he started developing feelings for me and the situation seemed pretty bleak. It can definitely happen!

Thank you! I would so love to hear from him again and to continue dating. I had the same feeling about him, it was so natural and wonderful to be with him.. he even told me it almost scared him how great we could talk.

You are right thanks for reminding me. I guess some of the manifestation process I pit up the last months had worked. I will be very aware of my energy, even if I start this with him, I will feel good and be careful to not get needy or put expectations. I will go with the flow and see what comes out

Guys... today happened something weird. I am trying to manifest a guy back it has been six months. I had ups and downs about it. We stayed friends, but only saw each other a few times since. He was just friendly no signs of attraction or feelings anymore. I decided to not text him anymore and he texted me every month or so but just hi hows life stuff. Today all of a suddden he texted and began to say sexual stuff that he wants me stuff like that. That is not normal for him.. we didn’t had sex when we dated because we weren’t official and he said he only wants that when he is official. However I asked him that I thought he does not want something like this and he said that is right but he wants my body he does not know why... honestly although I want a relation I would not have something against this.. And maybe this is how the manifestation comes about? My friend said I should not do that because he left but I would like to I think