For those of you wanting or trying to attract a relationship, I think it's very important to consider what a relationship IS.

For me, a relationship is the coming together of two beings to celebrate love, joy and each other.
A relationship is not a necessity. It is not something that is required in order to survive. Nor is it something that will mend a tortured soul. So many people in this world are completely dependent upon their "other half" but this is so utterly flawed. You don't have a "half." You are WHOLE. You are an eternal being of light who came forth in unconditional love. It's inside of you, and it is always there. You can either ignore that love buried deep in fear, or you can find it, live it, breathe it, immerse yourself in it every single day of your life. You cannot and will not ever find the love you need in another person. When somebody loves you, it is actually not THEIR LOVE that makes you feel amazing. It is YOUR VIBRATION, and you LOVING YOU that feels incredible. When somebody is focused on you with adoration, YOU FEEL INVINCIBLE. And so you vibrate "invincible." YOU feel sexy, gorgeous, fabulous. It's not the other person, it's just that they have coerced you subconsciously to believe in yourself more. To think of yourself in kinder terms. To see yourself through the eyes of love.

Now, it's easy to get there when someone is adoring you. But you know what? YOU can get there all by yourself! You can harness that same energy, and access it all day long, and live in absolute joy WITH YOURSELF! And when you do that, everybody else will follow suit and start loving you too!

Using somebody else as your focus, as your reason to "wait for love" will never lead to what you truly want. Becoming stuck, or deciding that you simply can't be happy without your lover is the wrong way to go about this! You can totally have the lover! It's done! BUT.. Surely you don't want to be two people needing each other desperately? Wouldn't you rather be a magnificent being full of love, wanting to join with another balanced, joyous being to create absolute bliss together? Doesn't that sound so much more enticing?!

Let's work to tidy up our vibrations folks. We need to look at ourselves only. And try to uncover that love that we all have within us. When you can do that and let THAT be enough, then the tide will turn on all of your relationships. Promise 💜🌈