These are all good examples of everyone is you pushed out. It's no different with your SP, so apply the same principle to him. Why do you need permission to contact him? You are already in contact with him, so cutting him off makes no sense. It's important not to give a negative meaning to what seems to be less recent contact from him and not to react to that. It means nothing unless you give a meaning to it, so if you are going to attach a meaning to it make it a positive one that is bringing you closer together. In fact, I would see this whole experience with the ill person as bringing you closer together.

Last edited by Cynthia (8/11/2021 11:10 pm)

Hey Cynthia thank you! I appreciate the feed back. I actually have never heard of the law of assumption! So by what your suggest is taking this as a positive? Such as a “he may be away but he’s missing me”, “he wants to talk to me right now”, etc?

Thank you so much Cynthia! I appreciate your advise. Can’t wait to tell you my awesome results 💓 it won’t be long

i spent a lot of yesterday correcting my inner story. When I’d be like
“I’m annoying to my sp” instead i went “my sp wants to hear from me. He values me. He thinks I’m beautiful”

i called him on my way home from work and he answered on the second ring. I spent pretty much entire evening with him. It was filled with a lot of compliments like “you’re so pretty”- which isn’t common but it’s rare when he’s sober, and he was.  We even fell asleep on FaceTime. It’s cute because he always wakes up a bit before his alarm and shuts off the call so it doesn’t wake me.

he put in his 2 weeks at his job today so soon he will be having weekends off. So it’s safe to say i think he will come visit me soon 💓