Hey, gr8 i read this. Let it be his idea is imp, my SP told me once- he will call when he wants.They dont wana listen to someone, may be MANlish ego ;) Lol ...And I read How to win frnz influence people by Dell Carnigie, he has this point. Ppl should feel it's THEIR IDEA ( your suggestion is their idea - then they will do it , he mentioned this for better communication. )
Thanks for reminding me this.
VeronicaAdmin wrote:
Believe he can resolve his commitment issues and fully be able to be in an official relationship with you. Let it be his idea. I'm sure he will reach out again, and prepare the way for it by feeling you are his special person (thus, he must reach out).
Keep living your life, put nothing on hold. Yes, you want this now - but remind yourself you want it to be right. During this time, try to build yourself up and evolve. Imagine he is doing the same so he can be at his best to be with you too.
Wishing you all the best!
Veronica xxoo
QueenJ wrote:
Hey there all.
So I met this guy online in 2018 we were doing really well but he told me from the very start that he doesn't wanna commit. We had a fight and didn't talk for 2 months. Ans after that I went back to him and we got together, it is also long distance btw. Now I was always scared to not lose him again so the dynamic of relationship changed , he behaved like a boyfriend always but said that he is just my friend. All the time we were together we would talk endlessly, he would make me watch romantic movies, make me meet his friends,etc. I could always feel that he adores me and he even said so. But when I brought the topic of commitment he and blew it up. We didn't talk for 1 month and post that he would send me memes etc on Instagram but no great talk.
Forward to April 2020 the lockdown started and we started talking to, endlessly again and he was all things nice but not warm enough, again the topic of commitment came and he blew it up. It's been 2-3 weeks we haven't spoken. After I took a stand he just sent one message to get my attention thats all. Ive been doing manifestation, but my tarot said there's a third party something although my gut doens't agree to it. I feel calm now , like I've done my manifestation and I can feel he wants me too but he needs to resolve his commitment issue. I get a little Impatient sometimes. Pls help me out. What am I doing wrong , what needs to change like I don't constantly think about him, I've started living my life , but I do want him as my partner. So please help out. Thanks so much.
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