Bit confused...

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Posted by Rainflower
6/03/2019 12:55 am
#1

Hi all, 
my sp regularly streams on Twitch (video games) and you can join in chat along with others where he replies whilst streaming (hope this makes sense lol... sorry!)

Well he streamed for 4 hours last night and I was ignored for those 4 hours. Even when his friend who also joined in the stream replied to something I said my sp did not say a word. It confuses me as I have been doing the 5*55 (i love the daily chats I have with... ), I set the intention that we were going to talk and all of that but nothing. I hadn't logged into one of his streams for quite a while but it didn't feel great to be ignored. 

What did I do wrong?
Thanks

 
Posted by yasm
6/03/2019 1:37 am
#2

You need to let go, trust the process, and know that the timing will be just right. Who knows why he didn't respond... who cares? Maybe he was thinking about the game, his other friends, whatever. You can't let him not saying anything disappoint you. It doesn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things. Feel as though you already have the desired relationship with him; focus and dwell on those feelings 

Last edited by yasm (6/03/2019 1:42 am)

 
Posted by Rainflower
6/03/2019 1:53 am
#3

yasm wrote:

You need to let go, trust the process, and know that the timing will be just right. Who knows why he didn't respond... who cares? Maybe he was thinking about the game, his other friends, whatever. You can't let him not saying anything disappoint you. It doesn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things. Feel as though you already have the desired relationship with him; focus and dwell on those feelings 

thanks! I appreciate that! I think my confusion came from the setting of intentions that didn't really work. But you're right. I wasn't really disappointed, just confused, hence the question! thanks again!
 

 
Posted by PrettyFlamingo
6/03/2019 4:10 am
#4

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 


Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
 
Posted by Rainflower
6/03/2019 6:00 am
#5

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

 
Posted by Cynthia
6/03/2019 6:45 am
#6

Rainflower wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

 
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U


The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
 
Posted by Rainflower
6/03/2019 7:06 am
#7

Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

 
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U

thank you! I'll listen tonight when home from work!
 

 


 
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