Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Attract my specific guy

**Posted by TanyaM** 5/11/2019 2:29 am

Hi. There's this guy that I have feelings for. We talk a lot but things don't seem to be moving forward. Meanwhile my parents are pressuring me to get married. They tell me that I'm already old, can't be too picky and when I say no to a guy they are trying to set me up with, they'll point out my flaws. All of this just makes me feel so desperate for my specific person. I don't want to feel needy. I want to attract my specific guy. But I also know that I'll never be able to attract him if I'm not happy. I just don't know how to ignore the current situation. Also, I have a few marks on my face since birth. I want to manifest healthy skin. I'm also told that I should be ready to compromise because of that. If any of you can offer some guidance, it would be really helpful.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 5/11/2019 6:10 am

How old are you?

**Posted by TanyaM** 5/11/2019 6:12 am

Turning 27 this year

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 5/11/2019 6:59 am

I'm 35 this year and not married or in a relationship, your parents will think me ancient and hopeless then. 27 is very young so don't take that on board.

**Posted by TanyaM** 5/11/2019 7:15 am

Thank you. I keep trying to tell them that it's more important that I land up with someone I love than getting married at a certain age. Are you manifesting a special specific someone too?

**Posted by Cynthia** 5/11/2019 7:31 am

TanyaM wrote:
Thank you. I keep trying to tell them that it's more important that I land up with someone I love than getting married at a certain age. Are you manifesting a special specific someone too?

They should be telling you that, not the other way round. I was 31 when I got married. They're obviously older than you, so if you're old, what does that make them?

I know of somebody who got married coming up to 2 years ago for the first time at age 66.

Last edited by Cynthia (5/11/2019 7:33 am)

**Posted by TanyaM** 5/11/2019 7:41 am

I know. It's just that they're concerned and society pressure also affects them. And we both want the same thing, my happiness. But they just do about it the wrong way. I know all of these things at the back of my mind but in the moment when they're trying to impose their limiting beliefs on me, I get really worked up and my vibe goes down. I want to figure out a way to not let that happen.

**Posted by fizzy** 5/11/2019 3:43 pm

TanyaM wrote:
I know. It's just that they're concerned and society pressure also affects them. And we both want the same thing, my happiness. But they just do about it the wrong way. I know all of these things at the back of my mind but in the moment when they're trying to impose their limiting beliefs on me, I get really worked up and my vibe goes down. I want to figure out a way to not let that happen.

I’m never on this forum anymore, but I saw this and just wanted to say that your parents are you pushed out. Everyone in your reality is. And that means that you can manifest them being different and not pressuring you about this anymore. My advice would be to just ignore them. But if you’re finding it very hard to do that, then start intending for them to be ok with you marrying when you’re ready and not putting a time limit on it. Neville talks about this. There’s also a channel on YouTube called ‘Create Your Future’ where this concept is talked about a lot. Hope that helps.

**Posted by Cynthia** 5/11/2019 3:48 pm

fizzy wrote:
TanyaM wrote:
I know. It's just that they're concerned and society pressure also affects them. And we both want the same thing, my happiness. But they just do about it the wrong way. I know all of these things at the back of my mind but in the moment when they're trying to impose their limiting beliefs on me, I get really worked up and my vibe goes down. I want to figure out a way to not let that happen.
I’m never on this forum anymore, but I saw this and just wanted to say that your parents are you pushed out. Everyone in your reality is.

True, but she probably doesn't have any idea what that means.

Here's a link to help you understand that.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U

Last edited by Cynthia (5/11/2019 3:52 pm)

**Posted by TanyaM** 5/11/2019 9:28 pm

fizzy wrote:
TanyaM wrote:
I know. It's just that they're concerned and society pressure also affects them. And we both want the same thing, my happiness. But they just do about it the wrong way. I know all of these things at the back of my mind but in the moment when they're trying to impose their limiting beliefs on me, I get really worked up and my vibe goes down. I want to figure out a way to not let that happen.
I’m never on this forum anymore, but I saw this and just wanted to say that your parents are you pushed out. Everyone in your reality is. And that means that you can manifest them being different and not pressuring you about this anymore. My advice would be to just ignore them. But if you’re finding it very hard to do that, then start intending for them to be ok with you marrying when you’re ready and not putting a time limit on it. Neville talks about this. There’s also a channel on YouTube called ‘Create Your Future’ where this concept is talked about a lot. Hope that helps.

Thank you so much. That is helpful 😊 I'll definitely watch those videos.