Posted by vulpix  4/27/2019 4:58 am | #1 |
I manifested a text from my sp who had been ignoring me for a couple weeks, but even though he contacted me, it still felt like he didn't really want to talk. We exchanged brief messages for maybe 4-5 days, so I left him alone again for a week and a half. I reached out again, but he didn't open my msg and it's been almost a full day. I felt like I was manifesting him back into my life, but him contacting me again actually brought back feelings of doubt and lack, and am having trouble getting back into the right mindset I was in when I manifested the text from him. I feel like things are going backwards. I really want to lock down another meetup in the near future because that's the only way I feel I can win him over. In person we have great chemistry, but things don't flow over text. We live far apart and have only met up once. I started feeling things for him after our meetup, and he seemed like he was feeling the same for a bit.
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Posted by jeena.eb94 4/27/2019 8:33 am | #2 |
My story kinda looks like yours, me and my guy in a long distance relationship, but it’s not that much of distance, we haven’t talked about 4 weeks, he decided to take a break, I manifested a couple of likes from him on instagram lol , just that, he didn’t texted me yet, and I’m like hot and cold about it, don’t know what to do too, I’m trying focusing on myself though but I do miss him a lot
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Posted by vulpix 4/28/2019 5:40 am | #3 |
It is nice to have someone to relate to. Similar to you and your guy, we're not super far apart either. I could drive to his city and then drive home the next day and it wouldn't interfere with my schedule..which we planned for, but I'm not gonna bring it up. He needs to follow through with it. I hate to let doubt creep in, but it's really hard not to when we were talking a lot and then things went back to how they were before I liked him (he has been trying to talk to me for years online and through text, but it was always on and off). I just didn't mind how sporadic things were before because I had no attachment. I just try to keep telling myself that if he wanted to rid himself of me completely, he wouldn't have messaged me. And surely your guy wouldn't have liked your IG posts! Sounds like progress. I keep noticing little signs that I'm not even looking for that kind of give me hope as well. Maybe we just need to be patient and trust the process. I do know that I need to adjust my mindset though for sure, it's just difficult. I think the only reason I was able to adjust it last time was because so many days had passed without hearing from him, so I was starting to think I needed to let go. By the way, he ended up texting me back yesterday, but it just seemed kinda "meh" still. Sighh...trying to remain positive
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 4/28/2019 5:58 am | #4 |
vulpix wrote:
I manifested a text from my sp who had been ignoring me for a couple weeks, but even though he contacted me, it still felt like he didn't really want to talk. We exchanged brief messages for maybe 4-5 days, so I left him alone again for a week and a half. I reached out again, but he didn't open my msg and it's been almost a full day. I felt like I was manifesting him back into my life, but him contacting me again actually brought back feelings of doubt and lack, and am having trouble getting back into the right mindset I was in when I manifested the text from him. I feel like things are going backwards. I really want to lock down another meetup in the near future because that's the only way I feel I can win him over. In person we have great chemistry, but things don't flow over text. We live far apart and have only met up once. I started feeling things for him after our meetup, and he seemed like he was feeling the same for a bit.
Reached out? Was he in quicksand or a fast flowing river? Do you mean you contacted him? This phrase makes me laugh.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 4/28/2019 6:01 am | #5 |
Search through posts from Cynthia. You need to live in the end of what you want, which isn't a text, I'm guessing it's a relationship. Find those posts, they're full of information and links.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
