Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 1:02 pm | #21 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
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It sounds so me that according to John, we are God? That’s why we are the creator of everything of sorts? In his teachings, is that who we or I really am?Yes, you can look at it that way, but what he actually teaches is that you are everything. There’s nothing you can see that isn’t you. You are just playing a game with yourself, acting as though you’re less than you actually are. You do this because it’s fun. It’s fun to expand and discover more and more about yourself. You could easily give yourself everything you want, but because you’ve reduced yourself down into a mere human being and created all these ‘rules’ and ‘systems’ for your existence and world, you make it seem difficult to obtain everything you want. But in knowing who you are, you can start realizing that it is possible for you to have everything, and the only ‘thing’ ever stopping you is yourself.
This is all much more than just saying “Oh, I’m God, ok I get it”. You may get it, but do you actually KNOW it. Usually no. Knowing is a process. When you know it, all of your misunderstandings and struggles to manifest what you want become a lot less. You start realizing that every way of manifesting is valid because there is no set way. There are no rules to it and there is no universe to work with. Any rules, systems, methods, etc are made up by you. Do you sit there and say “Before I move my arm, I need to love myself and detach”? Or, “Before I move my arm, I need to live in the end”?
I’m really not putting down these ways of thinking at all. They are very helpful and they are ways for us to successfully manifest at our current levels of awareness. I’m just trying to make things a bit more clear when it comes to his teachings and what I’ve learned.
How do you did you come to this knowing you mentioned? What success have you had with his teachings? I had a bad night with my sp last night. In johns teachings (which I will still listen to all of his videos) how did I create this? Does he talk about quick manifestations like out of thin air? He mentioned something like like in his financial gain through universal line video part 1?
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Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 7:09 pm | #22 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
How do you did you come to this knowing you mentioned? What success have you had with his teachings? I had a bad night with my sp last night. In johns teachings (which I will still listen to all of his videos) how did I create this?
I’m not claiming to be fully there yet, either. This is all still new to me and I’m still in the process of adopting a new mindset. I’d say the success I’ve had with his teachings is everything I just told you. A new mindset and I’m still learning and exploring. The only way is to study and interact with like-minded people. If you want something bad enough, you will put the work into learning it.
As I’ve said, you get what you expect. You may think you expected something different than what happened, but if that were true, then that thing wouldn’t have happened. What you expect to happen often comes from your identity. If you know you are everything, it will be easier to expect you’ll get exactly what you’re trying to manifest. If you still have doubts and believe that there is another source determining whether or not you get what you want, your expectation can still be there but you will leave room for not getting exactly what you want.
I am still wondering what I can do besides knowing who I really am that will build the expectation of how I want my person to be with me and for it to manifest. To me expecting and believing sound the same. What’s the difference? You said believing is what gets you results but it also sounds like true expectation does the same thing, get you results that you want. What can I do? Also, the people I live with say that I can’t base my whole life around manifesting, they don’t believe you can manifest everything and it really bothers me because they won’t let me explain and they have stuff to say that “proves” to them that manifesting isn’t enough everything. It’s really bothersome. How can I make sure that there is no room for me NOT to get what I want?
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Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 8:12 pm | #23 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
I am still wondering what I can do besides knowing who I really am that will build the expectation of how I want my person to be with me and for it to manifest. To me expecting and believing sound the same. What’s the difference? You said believing is what gets you results but it also sounds like true expectation does the same thing, get you results that you want. What can I do? Also, the people I live with say that I can’t base my whole life around manifesting, they don’t believe you can manifest everything and it really bothers me because they won’t let me explain and they have stuff to say that “proves” to them that manifesting isn’t enough everything. It’s really bothersome. How can I make sure that there is no room for me NOT to get what I want?
Expectation is what makes things happen. There’s no ‘true’ expectation, just different levels of it. If you think something MIGHT happen, that’s still a level of expectation. If you think it WILL happen, that’s a stronger form of expectation. If you KNOW it WILL happen, that’s an even stronger form of expectation. Believing that something will happen is a pretty strong form of expectation. You don’t have to be perfect and think you have to be super advanced and know all the answers in order to manifest what you want. There have been many success stories of people manifesting their desires, haven’t there? It’s entirely possible to manifest in ‘weaker’ levels of expectation, so to speak. Thinking you have to be super advanced in knowledge before you can manifest anything is just another example of you putting limits on yourself.
You can adopt the mindset of being everything and still use Neville’s methods to manifest what you want. Or any other method you choose. As I said, all methods are valid. Doesn’t the knowledge that you are everything, there are no rules for you to follow, and the only person or thing who can ever stop you from manifesting what you want is yourself, cause you to have stronger expectation of getting what you want with a method than you used to have? It certainly helps me.
John’s ‘method’ for manifesting is called the ten minute command session, but it’s definurely something I haven’t mastered yet. Neville’s techniques are easier for me to apply right now.
It doesn’t make sense for someone to tell you that you can’t base your whole life on manifesting. You are manifesting every second, you can’t NOT manifest. Every good and bad thing that happens to you was something you manifested through what you’ve come to expect.
Thank you fizzy, let me know when you have gotten better so to speak at johns teachings. I’ll have to get used to the idea that I am everything. And actually believe/except that. Does visualization build the expectation that my sp is everything I want him to be with me?
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Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 8:41 pm | #24 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
Thank you fizzy, let me know when you have gotten better so to speak at johns teachings. I’ll have to get used to the idea that I am everything. And actually believe/except that. Does visualization build the expectation that my sp is everything I want him to be with me?
Visualization can be used to do that, yes.
What else? Is there something more effective? I thinking no, but I’m not sure. I haven’t visualized in awhile
Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 10:20 pm | #25 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
What else? Is there something more effective? I thinking no, but I’m not sure. I haven’t visualized in awhile
I don’t know, there aren’t any rules. Methods only work because you expect them to.
Ok.. I fee like I’m back tracking here but I think you could help me with this. I have really bad anxiety keep in mind so can you explain this in Neville’s teachings or something please? The problem is I worry about my sp so much, to the point of tears, I worry about him dying. Wether it be by a an illness that kills him with 24-48 hours for him getting shot. I can’t live like this. I need to make sure this doesn’t happen ever and i don’t know how. The only thing I can think of is saying that “rr is protected from all harm” or should I say “I know rr is protected from all harm”? I’m so lost. I worry about this daily. I love him and need him. Idk what to do to make sure he’ll always be safe no matter what. People told me to stop worrying about it, there’s nothing I can do etc, and I can’t except that answer. Please help...
Posted by excalibar 1/02/2019 11:30 pm | #26 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
Ok.. I fee like I’m back tracking here but I think you could help me with this. I have really bad anxiety keep in mind so can you explain this in Neville’s teachings or something please? The problem is I worry about my sp so much, to the point of tears, I worry about him dying. Wether it be by a an illness that kills him with 24-48 hours for him getting shot. I can’t live like this. I need to make sure this doesn’t happen ever and i don’t know how. The only thing I can think of is saying that “rr is protected from all harm” or should I say “I know rr is protected from all harm”? I’m so lost. I worry about this daily. I love him and need him. Idk what to do to make sure he’ll always be safe no matter what. People told me to stop worrying about it, there’s nothing I can do etc, and I can’t except that answer. Please help...
I don’t know how much I can really help with this, but I can give you my opinion. Just because you fear or worry about something, that doesn’t mean it will happen. Emotions have no creative power. They are just there to make life interesting. At times you have other expectations in place that keep your worst fears from happening. Through feeling like you need to ‘make sure’ nothing happens to him and feeling the need to even say affirmations about it, you are keeping the whole issue alive. There’s no need to do any of that for him to be ok. You aren’t creating anything through your fear. The best thing to do would just be to drop the whole thing and stop feeling like you need to stop something from happening because of your past fear. If you really feel that you can’t let go of this worry, maybe see a doctor to deal with your anxiety. That’s the best advice I can give.
Idk if I am ready to stop doing those affirmations. You think visualizing having him as my boyfriend will obviously keep him alive and well for me? Thats the only thing that I can think of that might prevent something happening to him but idk. That’s what I’m thinking but I’m so anxious right now that I can’t think clearly. I think I’m going to go on pills for anxiety for awhile. I visualize his friends telling me that he doesn’t party anymore because he knows I don’t like it. Sometimes i think those bad ‘what if’s’ and it makes things worse because well what if? I need him. I can’t lose him. That’s why I want to manifest him being my bf now. Also I do those affirmations about my sp being protected so I soon believe and manifest exactly that. That’s what I hope to get from that.
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Posted by excalibar 1/03/2019 9:54 am | #27 |
fizzy wrote:
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Idk if I am ready to stop doing those affirmations. You think visualizing having him as my boyfriend will obviously keep him alive and well for me? Thats the only thing that I can think of that might prevent something happening to him but idk. That’s what I’m thinking but I’m so anxious right now that I can’t think clearly. I think I’m going to go on pills for anxiety for awhile. I visualize his friends telling me that he doesn’t party anymore because he knows I don’t like it. Sometimes i think those bad ‘what if’s’ and it makes things worse because well what if? I need him. I can’t lose him. That’s why I want to manifest him being my bf now. Also I do those affirmations about my sp being protected so I soon believe and manifest exactly that. That’s what I hope to get from that.
But why do you feel you need to believe and manifest protection for him in order for him to be ok but you don’t need to do that for anyone else in your life in order for them to be ok?
Yes, if you live in the end of him being your boyfriend already, I think it would help to take your mind off of these conditions you’ve placed on his well-being.
I guess it’s because I care about him so much and he does stupid stuff (which i should stop believing,or as you put it,expecting). I am unsure how to do this however. It’s super uncomfortable. Cynthia said that living in the end is just in imagination, not really outside of it, I just shouldn’t worry about it when I’m not imagining. It has come to the point where I feel like I have to keep him safe just to make sure. It’s really sad I know.
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Posted by excalibar 1/03/2019 12:56 pm | #28 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
I guess it’s because I care about him so much and he does stupid stuff (which i should stop believing,or as you put it,expecting). I am unsure how to do this however. It’s super uncomfortable. Cynthia said that living in the end is just in imagination, not really outside of it, I just shouldn’t worry about it when I’m not imagining. It has come to the point where I feel like I have to keep him safe just to make sure. It’s really sad I know.
It’s like a cage you’ve put yourself in. Everyone else in your life can regularly get through the days fine without you doing anything and he could, too. I think if it’s him doing stupid things that bothers you, you should focus on revising that. Change him into someone who values safety and takes care of himself better, rather than feel like you have no control over the situation and have to try and stop something from happening.
If you are truly living in the end, you will carry the relief that he’s your boyfriend around with you even when you aren’t imagining or thinking of him. It’s not that you imagine and then after your sessions you let yourself doubt the imaginal work you just did. It’s all in imagination in the sense that the sessions help you capture the feeling and convince yourself that it’s real, so much so that you walk around with the feeling that it’s already accomplished afterward.
I can walk around in the feeling for a bit after I visualize but only a bit. I sometimes think things like “I’ll have to tell him that I’m going to Africa in July”. I think going on anxiety pills of whatever will help me with living in the end. But as I said I can only do it for awhile. I like to think the more I visualize the better and clearer it will get and the easier it will be to believe and feel as if I have him as my ideal boyfriend now. Haven’t you said that before or at least something along those lines?
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Posted by excalibar 1/03/2019 1:47 pm | #29 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
I can walk around in the feeling for a bit after I visualize but only a bit. I sometimes think things like “I’ll have to tell him that I’m going to Africa in July”. I think going on anxiety pills of whatever will help me with living in the end. But as I said I can only do it for awhile. I like to think the more I visualize the better and clearer it will get and the easier it will be to believe and feel as if I have him as my ideal boyfriend now. Haven’t you said that before or at least something along those lines?
Yes, I think practicing anything will cause you to get better at it.
It just makes sense to me. However I am not yet comfortable with not doing protection affirmations and such. But I think just visualizing him being super careful and not partying and dong other unwanted things will result in much faster and better results than me worrying and doing these affirmations. I think they will work though tbh. I worry about my health too. I want to get to the point where I can manifest “miracles” within hours lol. I have big dreams and goals. I also get really impatient when things don’t happen fast enough. That’s why speed of manifestation is so important to me. I wonder how I can improve this. As in improve the stress and improve the speed at which I can manifest. I don’t get why some things take longer than other, I think it has to do with what we believe and expect. And in that case we can change and make all manifestations happen really quick. I mean hours quick for big things lol.
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Posted by excalibar 1/03/2019 3:31 pm | #30 |
fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
It just makes sense to me. However I am not yet comfortable with not doing protection affirmations and such. But I think just visualizing him being super careful and not partying and dong other unwanted things will result in much faster and better results than me worrying and doing these affirmations. I think they will work though tbh. I worry about my health too. I want to get to the point where I can manifest “miracles” within hours lol. I have big dreams and goals. I also get really impatient when things don’t happen fast enough. That’s why speed of manifestation is so important to me. I wonder how I can improve this. As in improve the stress and improve the speed at which I can manifest. I don’t get why some things take longer than other, I think it has to do with what we believe and expect. And in that case we can change and make all manifestations happen really quick. I mean hours quick for big things lol.
Just do whatever you’re comfortable with. I can only give you my opinion on your situation and what I think will help you. But remember, there aren’t any rules. All rules are self-created.
Manifestations do take time because of what we expect. Time is just a system that we created as humans that we tend to strongly buy into. Time definitely has its benefits, but it’s just a self-created system like anything else. You don’t HAVE to wait a long time for a manifestation. It’s just what you expect because you created time. So yes, it’s entirely possible to be able to manifest instantly. All is possible, it’s just that some things are more difficult to accomplish than other things because of how strong our expectations are in certain areas. Realizing that you are everything and that you could manipulate reality with as much ease as you experience with moving your arm is very helpful. Just knowing that, I think many doubts tend to disappear, even if you aren’t able to do that right now.
To you, what’s the difference between expectation and belief? Is expectation like ‘I expect to move my arm’ and so I do? You use expectation instead of believing but right now I like believing..