ItIsDone wrote:

To each their own I guess.

I’m with PF and Dan2015 on this. I’m not expecting some huge reply or a letter or appreciation. A basic reply is enough. For me it’s not about feeling appreciated or the feeling of acknowledgement. I guess its just that if I were in their shoes, I would answer so it’s basic human nature that I would expect the same from them. I know not everyone is raised the same but I see nothing wrong in people expecting an answer back just like some others see nothing wrong in people disappearing after receiving a response. In the same vain of the latter point, people don’t even have to give advice to any of this people too.

I guess some just adhere to the basic mechanics of human communication whether it’s online or in person. (Omg, imagine if this happened in real life. Someone running up to you crying asking for advice then they just abruptly walk away from you without a word 😂)

I don’t think people would do that in real life. On a forum with people you barely know it doesn’t seem odd especially when these people are probably just living life which honestly is what you should be doing. Ask believe recurve it’s that simple. It’s not science. If you put the intention out there with visualizing or anything that helps you be clear all you have to do after that is trust that’s it’s yours allow because you don’t need to know how it can come in different ways. Then live in the now which to me is like living in the end because you would be enjoying yourself if you had it so living in the now is enjoying what’s happening right now. So it’s good these people live life instead of constantly coming back to the forum and repeating their story over and over. Yes people don’t have to give advice and it’s great they do. However when it comes to harping on people for not responding I think that is the part that can come across as needing something to make you feel appreciated. Think about it if you really didn’t need it would you make it a big deal that a stranger didn’t respond to your post? I wouldn’t imagine so. You would give the advice anyway without the need of getting something back from this person. It’s classic loa and detachment. If you are doing it to help someone you don’t care about getting a response back. If they get something that they internalize for it you’ve done your job you don’t need to know about it. It could resonate but they may have been busy and just not replied. It’s just loa at work if I text my specific person back after they text me for example if I really did out of love and good vibration I would text and just go about my day not worrying or feeling anything if he didn’t respond. But if I needed something for him to make me feel wanted and appreciated I would think about why isn’t he responding why isn’t he replying. Why is he not replying to me is he even listening ,etc. it’s the same here really. We can’t tell him people that when they talk about sps or anything they are wanting and not expect it to be the same in situations that come to this forum. Again If you did the advice from a good place you wouldn’t need any response at all.

Last edited by Selfloveiskey (11/21/2018 12:06 pm)

Yea, like I said before to each their own. I understand not making a big stink about it or dwelling on it but I also understand people expecting a response too. It’s great they are living their lives (as they should be) but it can also be argued that a response doesn’t take up your entire life either. I mean look at you and how quick you were able to respond to me despite also living your life/“living in the now”.

Just to be clear I’m not saying it’s an absolute requirement that everyone that comes on this forum asking a question must respond or they’ll be shunned or whatever. But I get why people would want some sort of a follow up too. Just like one can argue “why should they answer” another can argue “why shouldn’t they”. Expecting a reply when engaging in communication doesn’t need a huge self analysis. It’s just human nature/instinct. It’s as simple as “I wonder what happened to so and so and I wonder if she/he is doing well”. At the end of the day, people are going to do what they want to do but pondering over it doesn’t mean you’re seeking the feeling of being wanted/needed/appreciated.

Edit:

Just now seeing your most recent response. The food for thought you gave makes sense from a purely manifesting perspective (I.e. you didn’t receive a response because something in you prevented it from being created in your reality).

I’m just saying (outside of manifesting a response) that wanting a response in and of itself isn’t something to be seen as bad. I mean doesn’t manifesting first begin with knowing what you want vs what you don’t want (followed by the traditional ‘LOA’ ask, believe, receive)? Wanting/desiring a certain response/outcome/whatever isn’t a bad thing.

Last edited by ItIsDone (11/21/2018 12:45 pm)