Posted by renyu  9/13/2018 4:17 am | #1 |
So, i've been attracting my ex back, and its currently working. Problem is he had girlfriend.
But he said he'd think through who he'll goes serious with.
he spent his free time and chat with me more than with his gf, but i couldnt help to still feel bitter about their relationship, about her.
When he's with me he would say that i shouldnt talk about her gf when he's with me, but i just cant help to not asking.
also i would:
Anxiously checking her socmed to suspect if my ex were having date or accompanying her.
It would sometimes pop up in my mind words and action that my ex used to do with me, n he did that to his gf.
I want to get rid of my suspection and bitter feeling towards his gf and their relationship. Is there any method you could recommend me?
Thankyou friends ({}) much love<3
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/13/2018 5:09 am | #2 |
First off, if you have anyone to be bitter towards, it isn't her, unless she deliberately targeted someone in a relationship. I don't understand the dynamic. Was he seeing you both at the same time? Did he cheat on you with her, or her with you?
That said, being bitter does nobody any good. It doesn't affect them, but it sure as hell affects you. Don't hang around on a string waiting for him to make up his mind about which one to choose. Waiting to be chosen? Stuff that for a lark.
Again, which we have all banged on about, you need to think about the end result you want, not waste your time and energy checking social media to see who is zooming who!
Here are some links to Neville Goddard's work:
http://www.feelingisthesecret.org/
http://www.thelawandthepromise.com/
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by renyu 9/13/2018 5:34 am | #3 |
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
First off, if you have anyone to be bitter towards, it isn't her, unless she deliberately targeted someone in a relationship. I don't understand the dynamic. Was he seeing you both at the same time? Did he cheat on you with her, or her with you?
That said, being bitter does nobody any good. It doesn't affect them, but it sure as hell affects you. Don't hang around on a string waiting for him to make up his mind about which one to choose. Waiting to be chosen? Stuff that for a lark.
Again, which we have all banged on about, you need to think about the end result you want, not waste your time and energy checking social media to see who is zooming who!
Here are some links to Neville Goddard's work:
http://www.feelingisthesecret.org/
http://www.thelawandthepromise.com/
its kinda complicated..
so he was my ex, after he broke up with me, he got with her without me knowing.
after that he ask me back and im truly happy to get him back.
but after a week i busted him had already in relationship with her. so we broke up again.
but then he said he really love me and tell me to wait for him.
and ta-da we have this "unknown" relationship.
though he said for me to wait n not to rush him, he said that he's confuse n didnt know who to choose between me n her. that got me pissed off so bad.
but again, i really love him so i told him i'd wait.....
oh! i dont know i could read Neville Goddard's there.. and i just ordered his book waiting for it to be delivered :")) Thank you, i will definitely check it out ^^
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/13/2018 7:14 am | #4 |
but again, i really love him so i told him i'd wait.....
No, no, no! He has you on a string then. Cut that string!
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by Selfloveiskey 9/13/2018 11:06 am | #5 |
but again, i really love him so i told him i'd wait.....
No, no, no! He has you on a string then. Cut that string!
Hardcore agree
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Posted by renyu 9/13/2018 11:25 am | #6 |
What should i do?
Should i told him "i need you to give me some space" something like that?
Deep inside i really dont want to lose him 
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/13/2018 11:38 am | #7 |
By saying you will wait for him to make up his mind he's seeing you as an option, a sure thing, and you're sending out messages of weakness. I can't tell someone else what to do but here's what I'd do.
Because I'm using my phone I can't see the whole thread so I don't know what caused you to split. But I wouldn't allow a guy to think I was OK with putting my life on hold while he makes up his mind about me. If you got back together, that's setting a precedent. I'd tell him, if it were me, that I'm getting on with my own life and future and if he's single in the future and I am too then we could start thinking about a new relationship.
Then I'd do the Neville stuff, get on with life and take good care of myself.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by fizzy 9/13/2018 12:10 pm | #8 |
By saying you will wait for him to make up his mind he's seeing you as an option, a sure thing, and you're sending out messages of weakness. I can't tell someone else what to do but here's what I'd do.
Because I'm using my phone I can't see the whole thread so I don't know what caused you to split. But I wouldn't allow a guy to think I was OK with putting my life on hold while he makes up his mind about me. If you got back together, that's setting a precedent. I'd tell him, if it were me, that I'm getting on with my own life and future and if he's single in the future and I am too then we could start thinking about a new relationship.
Then I'd do the Neville stuff, get on with life and take good care of myself.
I think this is excellent advice. And by following what Neville teaches, you can and will manifest a relationship with him.
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Posted by Selfloveiskey 9/13/2018 1:04 pm | #9 |
First off, if you have anyone to be bitter towards, it isn't her, unless she deliberately targeted someone in a relationship. I don't understand the dynamic. Was he seeing you both at the same time? Did he cheat on you with her, or her with you?
That said, being bitter does nobody any good. It doesn't affect them, but it sure as hell affects you. Don't hang around on a string waiting for him to make up his mind about which one to choose. Waiting to be chosen? Stuff that for a lark.
Again, which we have all banged on about, you need to think about the end result you want, not waste your time and energy checking social media to see who is zooming who!
Here are some links to Neville Goddard's work:
http://www.feelingisthesecret.org/
http://www.thelawandthepromise.com/
its kinda complicated..
so he was my ex, after he broke up with me, he got with her without me knowing.
after that he ask me back and im truly happy to get him back.
but after a week i busted him had already in relationship with her. so we broke up again.
but then he said he really love me and tell me to wait for him.
and ta-da we have this "unknown" relationship.
though he said for me to wait n not to rush him, he said that he's confuse n didnt know who to choose between me n her. that got me pissed off so bad.
but again, i really love him so i told him i'd wait.....
oh! i dont know i could read Neville Goddard's there.. and i just ordered his book waiting for it to be delivered :")) Thank you, i will definitely check it out ^^
Omg you are being strung along. He feels he can do what he wants with you . Dude I use to do that too then and don’t take offense , I got self respect and self love. I told my guy no I won’t wait and he figured it out. The difference is I didn’t say that to woo him back or play games. I felt no anger or anything towards him still love I want him happy and yes I would want him back but I also deserve to live my life . So ask believe received but waiting is basically acknowledging hey they aren’t there and I’m so desperate to get them back I’m not gonna live my life. So your person currently knows he can do whatever he wants and you ll it’s sit there. How attractive is that’? Not very at all. He isn’t loving you at tha point he is using you. It’s knly until you respect yourself love yourself know your worth live your life and just set the intention that he’ll be back for the right reasons. Why settle for this if it’s not what you want. Do you see how you are trying so hard to control the situation because you think if you do this you ll keep him when you really don’t have him. So manifest the relationship you do want with him and that starts Witt pulling the plug in this. I know you may worry omg he ll go back to her and all that . So? Maybe it hasn’t to happen that way for a bit for him to realize things. If you knew you would end up with him would you care about how? No so stop doing things that disrespect yourself to “keep him’.” Respect yourself please. Don’t wait i know from being in your shoes you might take this message as go move on forget about him but that’s not entirely what I’m saying. I’m saying manifest a relationship where he respects you . Manifest this by not doing this. And seriously just respect yourself treat yourself like you deserve people Are pushed out so if you don’t respect you they won’t at all. Also it feels real good to respect yourself and love yourself. I believe manifesting has a foundation of self love some people don’t but my life didn’t change til I did thst and out myself first. I totally didn’t wait for my guy and I did date when I was ready just to see if he was what I wanted. He texts me everyday now and things. I don’t do things to make him jealous j do things for me. If he wants to be with me we’ll hell do it because all I did was put out the intention I know it can happen only if I want it to. The universe will work out the how. I just need to live my life since I did my part.he knows I won’t wait for him. But again I m not angry or anything negative I still love him regardless. It’s unconditional that’s because I’m not desperate and needy.
Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/13/2018 1:06 pm)
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Posted by renyu 9/13/2018 9:49 pm | #10 |
omg guys.. im glad i posted it here. i feel like i've got courage to cut him out and focusing on my self.
i know im being disrespect to myself by the time i told him i'd wait. i should've followed my heart, but the fear of losing him just so strong
