Posted by Cynthia  9/11/2018 6:11 am | #151 |
oceanitrogen wrote:
To this I would say: You can have all that with him again, but live in the end of him treating you that way. Don’t focus on how he will come back, because the how takes care of itself.
Exactly. How many times do we have to say this to people?
I don't really get why you're being so negative today, but acting superior is not being superior at all. If you're having a bad day, don't answer to these. It's best to not say anything than to say something negative.
It's not negative. It's the truth that we've said the same things to people hundreds of times, most of them don't listen, and if you knew what real love was, you wouldn't feel the need for somebody you claimed to love to come back 'begging for forgiveness, etc.' That's a very immature attitude.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/11/2018 9:27 am | #152 |
Hey Cynthia - your post was written at 11:11. What is the hidden meaning of this? Is it a sign? 
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by fizzy 9/11/2018 2:22 pm | #153 |
I don't think it was meant in a personal way, it's just not always easy for most people, myself included, to accept the simplicity that this can all be.
This is true. Cynthia and I have been here for some time now and there have been a few times where both of us have really put our all into sharing what we know and trying to help people and it was as if they didn’t even bother to read what we wrote. And then they’d come back and continue to send both of us multiple messages with the same questions over and over again. I’m not saying everyone is like that and I’m not saying that’s what’s happening here, I’m just saying it has happened and can get frustrating. I do understand that sometimes it’s difficult to stop overthinking, though.
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Posted by Stacey 9/11/2018 3:38 pm | #154 |
Guys, I have one question. I want him back, but I want him to come back begging for forgiveness. I want him to work for it, I want him to prove to me a thousand different ways that he loves me. I want him to look and sound desperate, I want him to do all that is possible for me. Is that an issue?
Personally, I don't think this is the approach you want to take when it comes to manifesting a person. Focusing on wanting them to crawl back apologetic will only reinforce the fact that you're not together.
The trick is to focus on the end result, everything else falls into place.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Posted by oceanitrogen 9/12/2018 3:21 pm | #155 |
Guys, I have one question. I want him back, but I want him to come back begging for forgiveness. I want him to work for it, I want him to prove to me a thousand different ways that he loves me. I want him to look and sound desperate, I want him to do all that is possible for me. Is that an issue?
Personally, I don't think this is the approach you want to take when it comes to manifesting a person. Focusing on wanting them to crawl back apologetic will only reinforce the fact that you're not together.
The trick is to focus on the end result, everything else falls into place.
My point with all of that was that I want him to come back warm and open and loving and in love, the way he was (or more) before I messed it all up. And knowing him, if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it means he's not warm and loving because when he is, he does A LOT. That's what I meant. I want that amazing boy back. (Boy because we're 19, not really a man yet).
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Posted by Stacey 9/12/2018 4:31 pm | #156 |
My point with all of that was that I want him to come back warm and open and loving and in love, the way he was (or more) before I messed it all up. And knowing him, if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it means he's not warm and loving because when he is, he does A LOT. That's what I meant. I want that amazing boy back. (Boy because we're 19, not really a man yet).
You can have that person back, you just have to focus on the perfect aspects of him that would be there in the relationship that you are seeking.
I'm sure I saw Elizabeth Daniel's book brought up in this thread, ever read that? I found it to be a good read. Also, Neville Goddard is a good source of information for LOA in general. 
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/12/2018 4:48 pm | #157 |
Guys, I have one question. I want him back, but I want him to come back begging for forgiveness. I want him to work for it, I want him to prove to me a thousand different ways that he loves me. I want him to look and sound desperate, I want him to do all that is possible for me. Is that an issue?
Personally, I don't think this is the approach you want to take when it comes to manifesting a person. Focusing on wanting them to crawl back apologetic will only reinforce the fact that you're not together.
The trick is to focus on the end result, everything else falls into place.
My point with all of that was that I want him to come back warm and open and loving and in love, the way he was (or more) before I messed it all up. And knowing him, if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it means he's not warm and loving because when he is, he does A LOT. That's what I meant. I want that amazing boy back. (Boy because we're 19, not really a man yet).
I was childish and silly when I was 19 and looking back, if I had got what I "wanted" then, I would be in a right old mess now.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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Posted by oceanitrogen 9/13/2018 1:24 pm | #158 |
My point with all of that was that I want him to come back warm and open and loving and in love, the way he was (or more) before I messed it all up. And knowing him, if he doesn't beg for forgiveness, it means he's not warm and loving because when he is, he does A LOT. That's what I meant. I want that amazing boy back. (Boy because we're 19, not really a man yet).
You can have that person back, you just have to focus on the perfect aspects of him that would be there in the relationship that you are seeking.
I'm sure I saw Elizabeth Daniel's book brought up in this thread, ever read that? I found it to be a good read. Also, Neville Goddard is a good source of information for LOA in general.
I do want to read her book, but I can't buy it 'cause I'm short on money right now and I didn't find a free pdf (yes, I do that. No money no choice).
So if I focus on everything I love about him, even if he's not being the things I love about him, it can work? Lile focusing in how much I love that he always always comes after me even though we're going to hit the one month mark of not talking to each other?
I am making a schedule because my brain needs it otherwise I procrastinate and spend all day not really visualizing or being positive or acting as if and I'll stick to it. I just need to stop missing him, I don't want to attract more of his absence.
Also, I saw someone saying that if I feel and think that he's perfect and with me for more than 17 seconds and my negative feelings are existent but they last for less than that, then only the positive will manifest because it lasted for more than 17 seconds. Don't know if that's true
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Posted by Aquilina 9/13/2018 2:57 pm | #159 |
Abraham Hicks talks about it taking 17 seconds for one thought to join with another in order to begin to gain momentum so that's probably where that comes from.
Abraham also says if you're monitoring then you're not in the receiving mode. In other words, if you are thinking about the fact that it's been exactly a month since not talking to him, you're focusing on his absence. See it as already done then get on with enjoying life/the present moment.
"We imagine the wish fulfilled and carry on mental conversations from that premise. Through controlled inner talking from premises of fulfilled desire, seeming miracles are performed". - Neville Goddard, Awakened Imagination, Chapter Five
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Posted by PrettyFlamingo 9/14/2018 1:32 am | #160 |
Nobody is taking the Mickey out of you for being young and even now my life is not perfect and I'm no expert. Going back to what I said about the guy when I was 19: I was unable to discern then that he was pointless. However I saw someone else when I was the same age and he just zinged at me. Met up with him last year and I wished we'd got together when I was 19!
Don't lose heart. I'm most definitely not superior!
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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