Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / What should I do?

**Posted by BlerdGawdess** 8/27/2018 9:31 pm

This is my first post here, I tried to deal with this on my own but I really need to get this out. So me and my ex broke up last year and he moved to a new state. I missed him and thought about him a lot but I needed to take care of my mom because she had a heart attack during that time last year. Recently I learned that he’s married and has a son now and it really stings because we had talked about us being married and having a child but he's done that now.

I know for a fact that you can get an ex back but this is my first time dealing with an ex that's gotten married. I'm definitely going to respect their marriage but should I just give up? It's not like this girl is just his gf, she's his wife. I haven't contacted him at all because 1.) I wanted to be respectful and 2.) It's been over a year and I wasn't sure if he’d even wanna talk to me since he was the one that ended things before. Me and him were together on and off for four years, he was my best friend and we really loved one another.

If someone could help me with this I’d really appreciate it.

**Posted by BlerdGawdess** 8/29/2018 3:48 pm

Anyone? I would really appreciate the help

**Posted by GlowingWithLove** 8/29/2018 4:48 pm

I am going to answer you first with a question: What would you actually like to see happen in this situation?

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**Posted by BlerdGawdess** 8/29/2018 5:27 pm

GlowingWithLove wrote:
I am going to answer you first with a question: What would you actually like to see happen in this situation?

I’d like for them to separate and then divorce as bad as that sounds. But I want it to happen with no interference from me.

**Posted by GlowingWithLove** 8/29/2018 10:48 pm

The best thing for you to do is to work toward letting go. Wishing for thier marriage to fail is not a feeling that you want to feed your energy into. For your own sake, try not to focus on those types of thoughts. Wishes that are hurtful to others, can only attract negative things to you.

**Posted by BlerdGawdess** 8/29/2018 10:55 pm

GlowingWithLove wrote:
The best thing for you to do is to work toward letting go. Wishing for thier marriage to fail is not a feeling that you want to feed your energy into. For your own sake, try not to focus on those types of thoughts. Wishes that are hurtful to others, can only attract negative things to you.

Understandable. Trust, I've beaten myself up a little for having those thoughts but you're right, I have to work on letting go.

**Posted by GlowingWithLove** 8/29/2018 11:18 pm

Here is something for you to try: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SW9hfu4HZfE
It is called the Ho'oponopono Prayer. It is for self forgiveness. I've been using it to help me through my own situation, and it has helped me to feel a lot better. You can follow along with the video, or just repeat the words on your own. It really doesn't matter which. The words are: "I am sorry... Please forgive me... I love you... Thank you". I know it sounds a bit silly, but it helped me out of a deep depression. I felt so bad about falling out with my sister, that I could barely function. This helped me to begin to forgive myself. I hope that it can help you as well.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 8/31/2018 9:21 am

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Have a look at this question I posed and an answer.

**Posted by akuma** 9/16/2018 6:54 am

u can also imagine that the other woman is happy with some other person. and your man needs u. just focus on u and ur man . Imagine u guys being together. also show some positive energy to that kid.Just think about some situation where evry one is happy and loved. There is no frequency greater than love. manifest that