I support this.
I'm in the process of manifesting a new relationship with my girl.
She broke up with me by the end of may, and i was utterly devastated.
I tried so hard to show her it didn't have to end like this and i tried to get over there, even if it was just to ease the heartache or combat the feeling of loss. So what ended up happening?
I just pushed her away, more and more. It caused drama, fights, hurt feelings and other nasty things. To the point where she said i didn't have a chance with her and she'll never come back to me. It simply doesn't work.
So i spent the entire month of July doing no contact, healing myself, living in the end, and realizing life is good. And i'll be perfectly happy with or without her.
Today i decided to just send her a message, and i got a pretty positive response!
The moment you realize life is good with or without your SP, and you know you'll be perfectly fine regardless of what happens. That's when you're in the right state of mind to manifest 