Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / i came to a conculsion..

**Posted by habibatammar** 7/03/2018 2:30 pm

i believe that i can use the LOA to attract an ex, a call, a text, but when trying to maintain a good healthy relationship with that person, the LOA from my side is not enough.
i can manifest a call, but i cant manifest a healthy relationship with that person (ex)

i used the 25 day challenge and i got back my ex, we had a decent relationship for a month, i never stopped doing my visualizations but despite that problems came again, he never changed and took advantage of me. i had the courage to end this toxic relationship today

im disappointed, i thought i can manifest a whole new healthy relationship with him, but the truth is i cant. for us to have a relationship both sides should be working on that, not my side only.

do you have anything to say regarding what i said?

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 7/03/2018 3:21 pm

I'm curious what you define as the problems that came again?

**Posted by Pink Ribbon Ninja** 7/03/2018 7:03 pm

habibatammar wrote:
i believe that i can use the LOA to attract an ex, a call, a text, but when trying to maintain a good healthy relationship with that person, the LOA from my side is not enough.
i can manifest a call, but i cant manifest a healthy relationship with that person (ex)

i used the 25 day challenge and i got back my ex, we had a decent relationship for a month, i never stopped doing my visualizations but despite that problems came again, he never changed and took advantage of me. i had the courage to end this toxic relationship today

im disappointed, i thought i can manifest a whole new healthy relationship with him, but the truth is i cant. for us to have a relationship both sides should be working on that, not my side only.

do you have anything to say regarding what i said?

Maybe you have some hidden limited beliefs that project out as a reality that he doesn't change, etc. Sometimes we don't even realize that we still have that as a core belief. That's what makes the reality doesn't change.

I'd like some suggestions to change those underlaying false beliefs too.

**Posted by Sunshine&Dreams** 7/04/2018 3:09 pm

Exactly what I was asking that question for Pink.

This is something I have to work on too so there's no judgment, but if we deep within feel still undeserving, and like you mentioned, that they are the issue, not changing, etc., it's going to be reflected outward. People treat us how we expect them too. I'm at the point where I see my responsibility in the situations too so there is no "he/she is a horrible person." Where are we a horrible person in that situation? 50/50. There's them and there is us.

Note - this doesn't mean some shouldn't be restricted and we shouldn't stand up for ourselves. But they aren't 100% responsible.

**Posted by Pink Ribbon Ninja** 7/04/2018 6:30 pm

Yes, I think it's something that called "everyone's we pushed out".

**Posted by madone87** 7/04/2018 6:33 pm

How about i trust him but he aint trusting me. Is that everyone we pushed out too?

**Posted by Pink Ribbon Ninja** 7/04/2018 6:55 pm

madone87 wrote:
How about i trust him but he aint trusting me. Is that everyone we pushed out too?

As my understanding, yes, it could be. So, what if you try to start seeing him as a man that trusting you with all of his heart? What would you feel?

Well, maybe it's easier to be said than done, but you can try.
Slowly and take some baby step it's okay. The result doesn't always come instantly tho, but it will work if we believe.

Oh, I think Veronica has some videos on this topic somewhere in her Q&A playlist, if I'm not mistaken. :D
Agnes Vivarelli also has some videos about everyone's you pushed out. Or, maybe you want to search Neville's teaching about imagination creates reality.

People can change, but firstly you have to trust yourself that you can manifest, and that God/Universe will help you.

I hope it helps. :D