Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / I want some clarity in my situation - can anyone help?

**Posted by cleo** 7/01/2018 7:25 am

Hi,

I am attracted to my SP who is 17 years younger than me. considering the age, i tried to shake off this feeling inside of me, but I feel a strong pull towards him. The best thing is that he feels an an intense desire towards me too but he suffers from immense mood swings and oI can only see him like once a month (hes a part of the fitness group i joined). we hve never spoken to each other, on two ocassions, i messaged him, and he replied too, but was formal. in the past one year that we have known each other, he has only tried to show me how much he likes me by lingering around me whenver he comes for the sessions. my problem is, that this relationship hasnt progressed a lot. there is no real communicaiton. what should i do? should i start saying hello to him, or do anythign to change my behavior towards him?

Last edited by cleo (7/11/2018 5:08 am)

**Posted by fizzy** 7/01/2018 7:41 am

I don’t think Cynthia responds to posts on the forum anymore. But, she just may come on and see this. In the meantime, I can give you my opinion. I think you should at least say hello and start up conversation with him. See how he reacts. You will be able to see whether he feels awkward or comfortable around you this way. Who knows, if it turns out he’s comfortable around you, the conversation may progress into the two of you making plans to go out somewhere sometime.

If it turns out he acts awkward and you feel that it would be very uncomfortable for both of you to continue conversation, then I suggest you only say hi when you see him and do some “LOA work” to manifest a friendship (or relationship) with him.

**Posted by cleo** 7/01/2018 7:45 am

Thank you for replying fizzy. I had tried speaking to him once but he was extreemly awkward. You think i need to manifest a friendship wiht him before i could think of a relationship?

Last edited by cleo (7/01/2018 7:48 am)

**Posted by fizzy** 7/01/2018 7:51 am

cleo wrote:
Thank you for replying fizzy. I had tried speaking to him once but he was extreemly awkward. You think i need to manifest a friendship wiht him before i could think of a relationship?

No, you can go right to manifesting a relationship with him if that’s what you desire. Everything that would need to happen in order for that to manifest will take care of itself. Live in the end result.

**Posted by cleo** 7/01/2018 8:22 am

Even though i have some resistance about my future life with him? Like, he's 19 and whether he will want a longterm commitment at this age

Last edited by cleo (7/01/2018 8:24 am)

**Posted by fizzy** 7/01/2018 8:36 am

cleo wrote:
Even though i have some resistance about my future life with him? Like, he's 19 and whether he will want a longterm commitment at this age

It doesn’t matter what he wants. He doesn’t create in your reality. Only you have the power to do that. So if you live in the wish fulfilled of a relationship with him, you will manifest a version of him that wants the relationship, too. Other people are just projections who conform to what we believe to be true about them.

**Posted by cleo** 7/11/2018 5:05 am

Thank you for your reply. It's his birthday today. Should I message him? The last time we bumped into each other he pretended to ignore me

**Posted by fizzy** 7/11/2018 6:49 am

cleo wrote:
Thank you for your reply. It's his birthday today. Should I message him? The last time we bumped into each other he pretended to ignore me

You’re welcome. That’s up to you. Consider how it will make you feel before you do it. If you send him a message and he doesn’t respond, will it upset you? Will it make you feel awkward? Would it bother you to have to see him again if you get no response? If so, I wouldn’t do it. But if you are ok with the possibility of not getting a response and feel it’s something you really want to do, it’s ok. No matter what you end up doing and no matter how he responds, you can still manifest a relationship with him.

**Posted by cleo** 7/11/2018 7:57 am

I ll go with not texting him then. This wanting to mssg him maybe a fleeting feeling. I don't wish to take a chance. Thanks a ton fizzy for taking out the time to reply.

**Posted by fizzy** 7/11/2018 4:18 pm

cleo wrote:
I ll go with not texting him then. This wanting to mssg him maybe a fleeting feeling. I don't wish to take a chance. Thanks a ton fizzy for taking out the time to reply.

You’re welcome!