Greetings Forum!

This is my first post here. I was inspired to join after watching Veronica on YouTube when she mentioned “where two or more are gathered”. My situation is a bit tricky, so I could definitely use the energy of others to help correct it ASAP.

The issue is that my husband of ten years and I are separated, since January this year when he packed his things and left. We talk fairly often, and he does admit that he’s considering coming back, but he’s still “figuring himself out”, and he wants me to do the same. I went through several months of absolute heartbreak, and a flurry of Neville techniques along with other LOA techniques. But my heart couldn’t seem to get into alignment with any of it. All I could feel was the pain of his absence.

So, long story short, as our lives are financially tied together, and there are kids involved, No Contact doesn’t really work. And the conversation has been had several times about him coming home, so that cat’s out of the bag. I made all the mistakes in the beginning of begging, overcontacting, going into a hot rage, etc. But I believe I’m ready now to really take this in hand and fix it once and for all.

I’m thinking of using a combination of scripting and revision to dissolve the problem now that I’m not in such a heartbroken state. I’m feeling calmer and more capable of shifting us back into a state of togetherness, even though the sadness does hit me throughout the day, and especially at night when I struggle to sleep without him. But I’m wondering if anyone here has some ideas. I’m particularly interested in finding an LOA buddy or two who can add energy to whatever script or something I come up with, and I’m open to all suggestions.

((HUGS))
MoonBug