Posted by habibatammar  6/17/2018 7:02 am | #1 |
i have been brought up with the concept of: if its meant to be you shouldn't be working that hard for it.
im taking about relationships. i shouldn't be running after a man, i shouldn't be working my brain 24 hours and fight negative thoughts.
whenever i try to manifest a relationship or maintain one, it feels like im working so hard to achieve it, as if im forcing it. and once i stop my exercises things back fire at me.
im having alot of doubts
am i going to work this hard for my relationships to last? and once i stop it ends??
does it work this way?
why cant things be achieved naturally?
Please Send some Love and Positive Energy my way
I am Grateful
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Posted by habibatammar 6/17/2018 10:18 am | #2 |
BunnyRose wrote:
Habibet, you shouldn't feel like your walking on egg shells all day. You need to stand back and look at things objectively habibi. Is this a one sided relationship? Are you the one always pouring your soul into it? What is this guy contributing to the relationship? Is he providing you with your needs that come with a relationship such as adoration and loyalty? Do you think you deserve better than him, but you just with him, because you are simply attached to him and cannot cut yourself loose? Ask yourself questions, answer yourself honestly.
s this a one sided relationship? no
Are you the one always pouring your soul into it? yes
What is this guy contributing to the relationship? literally nothing
Do you think you deserve better than him, but you just with him, because you are simply attached to him and cannot cut yourself loose? i do deserve someone better, i try to breakup with him and move on, but every time he comes back again, i give up, we make up without taking about the past
Please Send some Love and Positive Energy my way
I am Grateful
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Posted by fizzy 6/17/2018 10:23 am | #3 |
i have been brought up with the concept of: if its meant to be you shouldn't be working that hard for it.
im taking about relationships. i shouldn't be running after a man, i shouldn't be working my brain 24 hours and fight negative thoughts.
whenever i try to manifest a relationship or maintain one, it feels like im working so hard to achieve it, as if im forcing it. and once i stop my exercises things back fire at me.
im having alot of doubts
am i going to work this hard for my relationships to last? and once i stop it ends??
does it work this way?
why cant things be achieved naturally?
Well, I don’t believe anything is meant to be. We choose what we create. Don’t try to fight negative thoughts. Negative thoughts hold no power on their own. They only become powerful when you think them consistently with feeling. You don’t need to work at keeping a relationship. Just cultivate the belief that your significant other loves you and that he will never leave you. That’s all you need. He will reflect back to you whatever you believe about him. If you are in fear of losing him, that’s what you will eventually experience. So relax and realize that you are in control 
