Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Waiting and what stops manifestations...

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/03/2018 7:57 am

So I’m getting better at keeping myself from looking at my situation and thinking “where is it?! Where is this person that I want?!” but I do still fall into that trap at times. If I see something I would have judged as negative before (seeing my SP doing something - maybe with his current significant other, etc) I know think things like “everything is working out as it should” or “everything is leading him back to me”, because maybe some of these things have to happen for him to come back to me I’m the long run.

However, sometimes I wonder what is stopping my manifestation? I have a lot of great things going on in my life that I am grateful for and I would like to share it all with someone! I know I’m perfectly fine and whole on my own but I would be great fun to have someone to go along with it all. I really would like it to be my SP but I don’t seem to even have attracted interest from anyone at all!

Any thoughts? Hints? Insights?

**Posted by fizzy** 6/03/2018 11:29 am

Sounds like you are handling the current situation well. Do you have any doubts whatsoever that conscious creation is real or about whether or not you will be successful? If so, this could really block things. It could also maybe be that you are focusing on current reality more than you realize. I don’t know if it’s possible for you in your situation, but maybe eliminating the possibility of even finding out that he’s doing things with his current significant other would be beneficial to you.

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/03/2018 2:27 pm

fizzy wrote:
Sounds like you are handling the current situation well. Do you have any doubts whatsoever that conscious creation is real or about whether or not you will be successful? If so, this could really block things. It could also maybe be that you are focusing on current reality more than you realize. I don’t know if it’s possible for you in your situation, but maybe eliminating the possibility of even finding out that he’s doing things with his current significant other would be beneficial to you.

Thank you fizzy. I do have doubts sometimes about whether I will be successful or not. In some ways I’m totally sure conscious creation is real and in other ways I see a lot of things that I worry can’t be overcome...

I could probably limit seeing him a bit more than I do (we live in a small town so we will eventually cross paths at some point) but I find sometimes if I haven’t seen him or he and his current person lately then my imagination starts going wild and thinks up a lot of things about how they just must be happy together because he hasn’t come back to me yet... I know this doubt and worry will keep me from success but it’s so hard to stop it!

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/03/2018 2:48 pm

BunnyRose wrote:
LotsOfLove wrote:

However, sometimes I wonder what is stopping my manifestation?
How do you know if there EVEN is something stopping your manifestation? lol That's what's stopping you. That worrisome thought. If you already know you have him, you would tell that thought pssssh - out you go lol..

Lol that makes sense, I haven’t thought of it that way before. I guess I just have figured the reason I don’t have him here now is because I’m doing something wrong or blocking him somehow!

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/04/2018 3:33 am

I guess it’s just hard to really want something and not have it. Sometimes it feels like I put in the “work” and I’m still in the same place I was before.

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/06/2018 3:30 am

Any other thoughts? Anyone?

**Posted by AliT** 6/06/2018 8:59 am

I think BunnyRose said it best, 'If you know you already have it, you wouldn't think about not having it'

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/06/2018 3:41 pm

AliT wrote:
I think BunnyRose said it best, 'If you know you already have it, you wouldn't think about not having it'

That is very true. I guess it is mostly get just showing itself and that’s why I wonder why I don’t have it yet.

**Posted by meena** 6/07/2018 11:16 am

Well it's our thinking whose making us doubt change your thinking first

**Posted by LotsOfLove** 6/07/2018 11:50 am

meena wrote:
Well it's our thinking whose making us doubt change your thinking first

Very true. I need to work in just having faith.