Berry wrote:
Okay I see. Thank you.
May I ask did any of you successfully manifest an ex back and if so how long did it take? Is that pretty much what you did? Just know that they will be back?
What about action? Ie I have drafted him a letter as it helped me with my emotions I probably won't send it to him but I sometimes question whether I should.
Why does it even matter? Just because someone tells you how it works doesn't mean that they are able to implement it themselves. That doesn't discount the information though. But yes, it happened to me twice actually. The first time, I was 17 years old and didn't even think about having no power. I thought I could figure out the ultimate plan that would bring him back and that it would work for sure...So I had no doubt about getting him back and felt that I had power over the situation. He was back before I could finish my ultimate ex back plan..lol.
The second time, the breakup was really crappy. I had a nervous breakdown and he even called the ambulance..talk about needy. But then, my mother told me that she is sure that it isn't over yet and that he would come back. He wasn't the guy who had much to brag about (he still did though) and I was in every regards a better catch than him. So I thought that my mom could be right and that he would be very stupid to let me go. I was in the middle of my exams and already messed up one because of him, so I decided to put all my energy and effort in the rest and just pushed every thought about him away. The morning I had my last exam, I got an email from him telling me that he doesn't know how he could think he could live without me..blaaah blaaah. I didn't visualise or affirmed, I didn't even know about LoA back then. I just trusted my mother, because I considered her wiser than me. In both cases, I didn't ponder my doubts or how bad the breakup was or what he might think about me after my breakdown or or or. I just trusted and did what I needed to do. And in the first case, I believed in my own power to change the situation.
No action at all...if it was the right action, it would happen naturally and you hadn't even time to post about it on the forum. If an action on your part is needed to make the manifestation come about, you will notice that you did something after you did it. So it's nothing you have to think about.
