Tumom wrote:

So it's been awhile since I've been on here . Things were going really great and I was able to manifest my person back in my life and things were great . Even though he is still in another relationship it is failing and on it's last leg .
I told him I would be there to support anything he decided and we even talked on a relationship . Things were great .
I guess I got too comfortable because I guess I said something to upset him and now he's gone .
I am hurt but I was wondering if there are any of you that had the person back and suddenly lost them . What did you do ? Or not do ?

 
That's more or less what happened to me. He came back after years, admitting that he'd taken out on me what other women had done to him, things were pretty good for a while, but he's got emotional problems that almost equate to a mental illness, which I didn't fully realise at the time. He's a damaged person from childhood traumas, which I understand because I've had the same but am well adjusted emotionally in spite of it.He's said and done many hurtful things to me and I finally gave him a massive telling off for it, as he needed it and had even invited me to tell him off if he needed it, which resulted in not hearing from him, and it's been over a year. I've finally learnt not to take it personally, even though it hurts. For several months, I was very hurt and angry and wasn't even sure if I wanted anything more to do with him, but I've gone back to imagining the way I want things to be between us as though it's already true. I'm also working on his emotional issues being healed, for lack of a better word. I've helped him before through imagination in other ways. I'm not putting any time limit on it. I know he'll be back when he's ready because if it weren't for this big emotional issue of his we'd otherwise be ideal for each other. There's never been another in my life who's been so compatible except for this one huge issue.

Last edited by Cynthia (1/19/2018 4:10 pm)