Faithiskey88 wrote:
Current circumstances. Mistakes i made after the break up. Things she said to me that go against her wanting to come back. What friends and family have said. I wish i could go back and not have made the texting mistakes. Those are the things that give me anxiety. I block the obstacles but when im not aware they sneak up on me and i almost cant breathe. I am usually not this way with a sp.
No, that aren't the things that give you anxiety. What gives you anxiety is the meaning you assign to them. What do you feel to be true about the current circumstances? What do the "mistakes" you made mean? All of that means absolutely nothing, because you are the only cause for everything. But you give it meaning without being aware of it and that trips you up. You think that the mistakes you made and the things you said are causes for the future and have relevance in how your story unfolds and that's simply not true.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise