Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / I don't know if i can do it

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/30/2017 2:20 pm

I was doing so great last week... but today i was reading posts on this forum and as i was reading those posts, i realised that most of the people who posted here these motivating things that inspired me were unsuccessful in manifesting their exes.. i know i shouldn't look on others people journeys but it feels so discouraging.. like it is almost impossible to do the work and the ones that did it and had success must be superhumans... it's draining.. i'm obviously not able to control my thoughts and not feel resistance. I'm not able to find thoughts that feels better. It's draining. I can hold the feeling of the relationship for a little while but then i feel exhausted.. the worst thing is that i realised i'm not really over the break up, it still hurts sometimes, but i feel like the only way to get over it is tell myself i can't have him and it's over and so on. But as i believe in LOA i don't believe these words.. and i'm scared i will no longer want him or anybody else when i move on and work on myself.. i feel now like i'm the most desperate person on this forum... and i was so confident lol... before i knew about loa, i was doing basicly the same thing as i do now to manifest a relationship. Last time i was doing it for about 6 months and honestly.. it didn't work for me... it worked for me quickly when i said to myself "it will happen at the right time" and went about my life. But i'm just scared it won't bring me the person i want.. i know universe knows what i want... but there was so many people who did this and never got the person... i'm discouraged by the stories of people who "found themselfs, never got the person they wanted but found someone better". .. someone please tell me something uplifting...

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 12/30/2017 2:24 pm

MiciJones wrote:
i'm discouraged by the stories of people who "found themselfs, never got the person they wanted but found someone better". ....

How is that discouraging? If I lose £100 and find £10,000 - which is obviously better - I'm not going to be upset over losing a hundred quid!

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/30/2017 2:30 pm

I know but he is basicly my first love.. call me pathetic but i always wanted to be with my first love till the end of our lifes... the thing is he is special to me in this way and noone else can be, when noone else is my first love obviously...

**Posted by yellowrose** 12/30/2017 3:27 pm

You can get a specific person with LOA or else there wouldn’t be books, videos, etc on it. Read Sanshi’s newer posts & maybe find a coach to help you. All is possible Also most people that have had success probably aren’t on forums anymore.

Last edited by yellowrose (12/30/2017 3:28 pm)

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/30/2017 3:44 pm

I don't really have doubts if it's possible. I'm just scared it is much more hard then i thought it is... and that i can't do it. I know i should just live my life and take it easy but i'm conviced i have to change my beliefs a little bit before i can fully let it go. But it's draining.

**Posted by yellowrose** 12/30/2017 5:41 pm

I think if it’s important enough to you, you will do the work. If not, then you’ll never get yourself to & it’s probably best to let it go & move on.

**Posted by MiciJones** 12/30/2017 5:53 pm

Thanks a lot. This is exactly what i needed to hear.. 😊 yeah i will just do anything for us. Now i know how to create wonderful life and i want him to join me and enjoy it with me.

**Posted by happygirl97** 12/31/2017 11:28 am

I can feel you.
Attracting back an ex is not easy... but its simple.
Dont beat yourself up because you are still hurt. Its normal. Be gentle to yourself and try to work on dissolving your hurt. You dont have to rush things. Give yourself time to heal and grow PRIOR to attracting him back.
SOmething that worked for me is not being TOO focused on that particular relationship.
For me, it drives me insane to visualise too much and being too eager in scripting and doing rs.
For me it is easier to go on with my life and doing meditations. Self love mediations are key.
If you dont like meditating, write down "I love myself. I am worthy. I am important. I am the priority in MY life. I am ENOUGH. I am lovely. I am firstbest."
I suggest, to only send love, do RS or visualise when you feel your own self love.
For me, it was the only way it worked. And it DID work.
By the way, the Universe is you. You attract based on your thoughts feelings and beliefs.Its not an outer force that decides for you what is best for you.