Stone88 wrote:
Yay! Congrats Shayne. I've not heard from him for a few days now, maybe I should visualise more on him communicating rather than the end result. Also if you don't mind me asking how long have you guys been separated?
Keep at it!! You're doing so well 😁
Thanks Stone! He actually isn’t an ex. He is a guy that I went on a few dates with and I felt a connection with him more than any other man before. (Sounds crazy, i know). But basically he didn’t want to continue to date because Work was beginning to get extremely stressful for him. I guess he couldn’t figure out how to balance. But i can kinda understand being that he had only been living in my state for 3 months & it was a brand new role for him. Anyway, we hadn’t been in contact for a month. I was starting to feel dumb for wanting a guy who wasn’t my boyfriend. Hell, we hadn’t even had sex. So on Christmas, I broke the NC rule and wished him a Merry Christmas which i wrote about here. It just felt right to do so i did it. And then this past Friday, i decided to reach out again. Very casual. Not wanting anything from him. He was under the weather but we text for about an hour. The conversation went great! I decided after that i wouldn’t reach out anymore cause i didn’t want to seem “thirsty.” He wound up texting me for something brief on Saturday and text me again yesterday as well as called! I’ve been following the 25 day challenge as well as affirming in my mind that he WILL reach out to me. It went from being a thought to me really feeling that it was going to happen and voila! It happened. I visualize the end result as well as constant communication.