Dear Sanshi, this is cool. :D

I started with the way 3, then the way 2, and now I'm on the way 1. And yes, I think it's the quickest route! And it feels really good.

But sometimes I fall back to the way 2 again, I guess that's at the time when my vibes are not that high, then I decide to be maindfully back again on way 1, lol.

Thank you for this post! :D

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

I’m hoping this “letting go” approach works. Whenever I think about him I just imagine him single and send love.

I just told you it doesn't. You don't need to hope for anything. You can just apply the Law properly and it has to come. But imagining him single isn't proper application. First, is him being single what you want? No, you want a relationship. Second, imagine him to be single obviously implies that he isn't with you. Why would you imagine that? Third, it isn't about imagining, it's about feeling its reality.

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

Damn you're good at this. You're exactly right. I shouldn't imagine him single. I should continue to live my life, doing things that I love and have a strong belief and knowing that the Universe is bringing him back to me in the most amazing way. Thanks again!

Sorry to disappoint you, but that's not exactly it either.
First of all, what does "strong belief" mean? Either you believe in something or you don't. When you think that belief has different levels, then you have probably a wrong concept of belief. Second, there is no universe that brings anything to you. It's all yourself. Don't wait for something to happen. You are the operant power and you have to do something before your world can change. Third, don't believe that he has to come back. Believe that he is already back. That's the only way for him to come back. Be conscious of being with him. That's the secret.
 

AnythingIsPossible wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

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You are the operant power and you have to do something before your world can change.
 

No disappointment over here. I'm thankful for you. I need this. I've been at it for months and haven't yet achieved my goal, so I need to shift. By 'strong belief' I meant believing in my desired outcome with as little doubt coming in as possible.

What exactly do you mean by "you have to do something before your world can change"? What is the "do" you're referring to? I know I have to change myself before my world can change.

I just wanted to point out the strong belief, because it's important to be aware of the words you use and the meaning of them. Same thing with the "doing". I was pretty sure that it wasn't very clear when I put it that way, but still I did (which is stupid btw). We are talking about very abstract concepts here and it's more misinformation around than the stuff that works. So it's important to be clear about the concepts behind the words. And when you really accept that you are the Creator, there is no reason for doubt anymore. As long as you doubt, you haven't accepted that fact yet.

By doing, I don't mean any physical action of course. It's a mental doing, You have to become aware of being what you want to be. That's what Neville calls thinking FROM the state. You put your consciousness within the person you would be had you your desired outcome and think from there. But it's not only thinking. It isn't enough to say "Okay, if I had him back, I would think about how happy I am....I am so happy with him, I am so happy with him....[...]". Those affirmations are just a waste of time. You have to feel yourself being it. It's the difference between a good actor and a terrible actor. A terrible actor learns his text by heart. He is John Smith before he enters the set, then he is John Smith playing Edgar Williams. When he plays he plays FROM John Smith. That's his state. He just thinks of Edgar Williams and didn't become him. He is over here looking at Edgar. He just says his text and everyone thinks how bad of an actor he is. But Antonio Spaghetti is a great actor. When he enters the set, he leaves Antonio behind and fully becomes Edgar. He is crushed when Edgar's wife dies and he cries tears of happiness when he sees his grand daughter for the first time. Why? Because in those moments, he has forgotten that he is Antonio and he becomes Edgar. He feels FROM the state of Edgar.
That's all you have to do. You have to become a great actor and you were one when you were a kid. You have to immerse yourself in your role play and every time you feel yourself leaving the stage, get back up as soon as possible.
There is nothing more to do but that. Everything other followed. If you have to act, you will find yourself acting. Or things will fall into place without you moving one finger. Your thoughts and actions are a direct result of your state. That's why it's hard to fight addiction or other behaviours you want to get rid of. That's why it is hard to change your thoughts. They are glued to your state and when you don't change your state, it takes a lot of energy to persist in them.