Posted by Seeker 9/25/2017 11:39 am | #1 |
I am not back with my ex....
HOWEVER I am happier and ready to "let go".
It has been a rough road.....but we did have some text conversations and in the last one he did say that my happiness is all that mattered to him and there was some flirting. That is a big deal because when we broke up over 2 months ago he said that we could not be friends.
I feel a different kind of energy when i think about him now, I can feel him missing me.
I have had some signs like exes contacting me out of the blue, seeing repetitive numbers, coincidences and for some reason blue jay feathers in my path.
I really really do feel like it isn't over between us, but I am letting go anyway . I know that I'll be fine no matter what. I am starting a new business and flourishing in parts of my life that i was not before. I know Veronica isn't crazy about us seeing psychics but they too have said that it isn't over....so I am not contacting him and just waiting.
I don't know if I should start the 25 days over or just focus on something else like do meditation, RS and visualizations every day.
Posted by Selfloveiskey 9/25/2017 11:42 am | #2 |
Seeker wrote:
I am not back with my ex....
HOWEVER I am happier and ready to "let go".
It has been a rough road.....but we did have some text conversations and in the last one he did say that my happiness is all that mattered to him and there was some flirting. That is a big deal because when we broke up over 2 months ago he said that we could not be friends.
I feel a different kind of energy when i think about him now, I can feel him missing me.
I have had some signs like exes contacting me out of the blue, seeing repetitive numbers, coincidences and for some reason blue jay feathers in my path.
I really really do feel like it isn't over between us, but I am letting go anyway . I know that I'll be fine no matter what. I am starting a new business and flourishing in parts of my life that i was not before. I know Veronica isn't crazy about us seeing psychics but they too have said that it isn't over....so I am not contacting him and just waiting.
I don't know if I should start the 25 days over or just focus on something else like do meditation, RS and visualizations every day.
Someone else had this experience with the 25 day challenge too and they felt better. I classify that as a success because you want to feel better. These people aren't the end all be all you can't rely on them for your happiness. If you want to start it over you can for sure . Or you can do your own visualizing and stuff up to you. You can pretty much manifest anything if you are vibrating in a high frequency that is why many say just feel good and happy and positive things gravitate to you you don't have to do anything special. So really it is your preference.
Posted by Seeker 9/25/2017 7:21 pm | #3 |
Yeah that's all fine and dandy but bottom line is I still am not back with my ex.....I'm calling it what it is...the point was getting back with my ex....not just being happy and love yourself.
Posted by Gratitude21 9/26/2017 12:06 am | #4 |
I've a very similar story as yours. Completed my 25days didn't get my ex back but felt happy and relaxed from inside. Grateful to Veronica for that.
But I've been able to let go now after about 2months of breakup and a lot of meditations, visualisations and affirmations. Now my whole concentration is on myself. Things don't bother me much the way they used to earlier. I think I'm more happy than what I was in my relationship also. I'm loving the change in me. I broke my no contact rule and had WhatsApped him, he responded decently but had said he will call which he never did. After that is when I realized that we both were equally at fault for the breakup and I had just been not able to forgive myself for it. I did that...I forgave myself and felt as if so much unnecessary burden is off my chest.
Anyway...since then there have been a lot of other guys showing interest...one had a romantic interest in me last year but coz I didn't reciprocate he had backed off. He messaged me out of the blue and we have been having some conversations since then. Don't know if it leads to anything further.
All I want to say is that as my vibrations improved I had a lot of people around me noticing and commenting on it and that's an encouragement. Also, now I want my ex only when he is on the same vibration as me. In the whole relationship he was the needy one. I was always spending time making him feel good about things and about himself. Now the thought of doing that makes me feel drained.
I'm open for new and healthy relationships and I am grateful to my ex to lead me towards LoA. It's only after the breakup that I took LoA so seriously.
Posted by Cynthia 9/26/2017 6:11 am | #5 |
Seeker wrote:
I am not back with my ex....
HOWEVER I am happier and ready to "let go".
It has been a rough road.....but we did have some text conversations and in the last one he did say that my happiness is all that mattered to him and there was some flirting. That is a big deal because when we broke up over 2 months ago he said that we could not be friends.
I feel a different kind of energy when i think about him now, I can feel him missing me.
I have had some signs like exes contacting me out of the blue, seeing repetitive numbers, coincidences and for some reason blue jay feathers in my path.
I really really do feel like it isn't over between us, but I am letting go anyway . I know that I'll be fine no matter what. I am starting a new business and flourishing in parts of my life that i was not before. I know Veronica isn't crazy about us seeing psychics but they too have said that it isn't over....so I am not contacting him and just waiting.
I don't know if I should start the 25 days over or just focus on something else like do meditation, RS and visualizations every day.
There's no time limit on getting somebody back, and you can't expect it to necessarily happen neatly in a 25 day period. Even Veronica says it can take longer than that. Just because it didn't happen in 25 days doesn't mean you have to give up. It doesn't sound like you are going to give up, but in LOA letting go doesn't mean giving up, it means releasing doubts, fears, and worries about whether or not you will be able to manifest something. If you still want him back you can either repeat the 25 days if you want to, since it made you feel good, or do your own visualising or anything else you want. There is no rigid formula that you must adhere to. Do whatever feels right to you, but remember that imagination creates reality.
Last edited by Cynthia (9/26/2017 6:16 am)