Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / What is meant by "be ok without them"?

**Posted by yellowrose** 9/17/2017 7:35 am

I see this all the time... "You have to be ok with not having your specific person in order to get them back". But, does this mean that you have to literally become fine with them being with someone else & never speaking to you for the rest of their life? Or does it mean you still want them, would not be ok with them never speaking to you again, but have the ability to be happy without them? I think it's really hard to become the first one if that's what you must do, because we know what's possible with LOA.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/17/2017 7:54 am

I think you are freaking out. What it means is your life doesn't revolve around them. They are an accessory not a necessity. It means you supply your own happiness. Self love is important it's the foundation for manifeststions. It has and is doing wonders for me . It means that your day is based off what makes you happy not sitting there pinning for them. Trust me you will feel sooooooo good if you do self love . So it's basically you making you happy you still want the person but they aren't your focus.

**Posted by Stacey** 9/17/2017 8:14 am

It's not as scary as it sounds, it literally means that your life shouldn't revolve around them as Selfloveiskey has said above. It's all well and good thinking about your love and your intention but your life shouldn't revolve around the whole "I want my ex back" thing.

**Posted by yellowrose** 9/17/2017 8:53 am

Ok. I'm not freaking out at all. Just wondering.