80saeaak wrote:

I think one thing that isn't talked about enough is that when you do RS, you attach to your POI. He could be doing RS, but it's more likely that you need to cut the cord. You probably created this energy between you and have not released it properly.

There are etheric cord cutting meditations on YouTube. You may need to do it several times, but it will help. Then stop doing the techniques. This isn't something you need to do forever.

Thank you for that response. I don't do the techniques anymore. I just want him out of my head. I just told off the new person who wants me because I felt like I would be lying to him if I'm still thinking about this person and my heart is not into it. It's so much energy wasted right now and it hurts so bad and I dont want to hurt another person in the process.

80saeaak wrote:

I get it. You create a psychic connection with people doing RS. It's super hard to shake, which is why RS should be a last resort instead of a first drastic measure.

There's a really great cord cutting meditation I'm linking below. There's also another shorter one I do to maintain it. Etheric cords, when strong, can reattach so you may need to do it several times. I also suggest either a chi or Reiki healing. They're usually $45-60, but will clear that out. It's incredible. Sometimes you MUST hit it hard. If you like, I can message you the name of my healer. She does remote healing and it's usually a 4-6 week wait to get a session (the first is $25), but she's very good.

https://youtu.be/D9zi2BrML5A

https://youtu.be/4Z-jU9Blxmw

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel like I want to move on and let go and its holding me back. Even the thought of anyone new holding my hand or kissing me grosses me out and I have new people wanting to be with me but the thoughts of my person won't leave me alone. I've been doing good for a while, manifesting many great other things and thinking about him made me hopeful and didnt bother me but now there's a nice guy courting me and even wanting to fly here from another country to see me and all my emotions became a mess and I got nervous actually moving on. Its ridiculous because my specific person left with a rebound immediately and here I am 4 months later still stuck on him. I didnt know that doing RS makes you so attached to that person, I thought it was affecting them more than me. I should try to find other thoughts to replace with but its so hard, literally pops in my head every time I go to sleep, wake up, sitting in my car... Its like a curse..
 

80saeaak wrote:

sillyromantic wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

I get it. You create a psychic connection with people doing RS. It's super hard to shake, which is why RS should be a last resort instead of a first drastic measure.

There's a really great cord cutting meditation I'm linking below. There's also another shorter one I do to maintain it. Etheric cords, when strong, can reattach so you may need to do it several times. I also suggest either a chi or Reiki healing. They're usually $45-60, but will clear that out. It's incredible. Sometimes you MUST hit it hard. If you like, I can message you the name of my healer. She does remote healing and it's usually a 4-6 week wait to get a session (the first is $25), but she's very good.

https://youtu.be/D9zi2BrML5A

https://youtu.be/4Z-jU9Blxmw

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel like I want to move on and let go and its holding me back. Even the thought of anyone new holding my hand or kissing me grosses me out and I have new people wanting to be with me but the thoughts of my person won't leave me alone. I've been doing good for a while, manifesting many great other things and thinking about him made me hopeful and didnt bother me but now there's a nice guy courting me and even wanting to fly here from another country to see me and all my emotions became a mess and I got nervous actually moving on. Its ridiculous because my specific person left with a rebound immediately and here I am 4 months later still stuck on him. I didnt know that doing RS makes you so attached to that person, I thought it was affecting them more than me. I should try to find other thoughts to replace with but its so hard, literally pops in my head every time I go to sleep, wake up, sitting in my car... Its like a curse..
 

It really should be talked about more. Sending energy is literally spellwork, though that's a trigger word and people don't like to think of it that way. When you envision someone obsessed with you, loving you, holding you, and saying wonderful things to you, you're creating that energy within you also. It's intense! That's why Lanie is so adamant about her cord cutting technique. I've never done hers. I use the ones I shared. It's vital to do it each time to ensure you don't wind up obsessed. The longer you hold off, the stronger the cords become and the harder they are to sever permanently. I can say that I spent months obsessed with my original POI and it took a while to get over it. I no longer have this feelings, but I had to completely cut the cord for a couple of months. Now the idea of him touching me makes my skin crawl. I'm working on total indifference. That's when I'll know I'm over it.

wow this is very intense I feel aweful for putting myself in that place. This morning I've been involved in a horrible accident that totaled my car and lucky to have walked out in one piece. I'm still shaking thinking about it. The car spun and flipped on its side and people came and pushed my car back up and helped me out before it went on fire! My initial instinct was to want to call my poi but I knew that he is no longer in contact with me so I called someone else to come help me. It's scary the place I got myself into mentally and I just want to heal and accept other people who love and want to be there for me now and try to forget this person who caused me to be in pain.

sillyromantic wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

sillyromantic wrote:

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I feel like I want to move on and let go and its holding me back. Even the thought of anyone new holding my hand or kissing me grosses me out and I have new people wanting to be with me but the thoughts of my person won't leave me alone. I've been doing good for a while, manifesting many great other things and thinking about him made me hopeful and didnt bother me but now there's a nice guy courting me and even wanting to fly here from another country to see me and all my emotions became a mess and I got nervous actually moving on. Its ridiculous because my specific person left with a rebound immediately and here I am 4 months later still stuck on him. I didnt know that doing RS makes you so attached to that person, I thought it was affecting them more than me. I should try to find other thoughts to replace with but its so hard, literally pops in my head every time I go to sleep, wake up, sitting in my car... Its like a curse..
 

It really should be talked about more. Sending energy is literally spellwork, though that's a trigger word and people don't like to think of it that way. When you envision someone obsessed with you, loving you, holding you, and saying wonderful things to you, you're creating that energy within you also. It's intense! That's why Lanie is so adamant about her cord cutting technique. I've never done hers. I use the ones I shared. It's vital to do it each time to ensure you don't wind up obsessed. The longer you hold off, the stronger the cords become and the harder they are to sever permanently. I can say that I spent months obsessed with my original POI and it took a while to get over it. I no longer have this feelings, but I had to completely cut the cord for a couple of months. Now the idea of him touching me makes my skin crawl. I'm working on total indifference. That's when I'll know I'm over it.

wow this is very intense I feel aweful for putting myself in that place. This morning I've been involved in a horrible accident that totaled my car and lucky to have walked out in one piece. I'm still shaking thinking about it. The car spun and flipped on its side and people came and pushed my car back up and helped me out before it went on fire! My initial instinct was to want to call my poi but I knew that he is no longer in contact with me so I called someone else to come help me. It's scary the place I got myself into mentally and I just want to heal and accept other people who love and want to be there for me now and try to forget this person who caused me to be in pain.

Hi, glad to hear that you are fine. It definitely sounds very scary the way you have described the accident. I'm sure you are absolutely shaken even now and the memory of it may shake you almost every time. Take care of yourself. Al the best.
I've never been able to do RS well, at least that is what I think. Even if I do I cannot hold that for more than 5mins. What is the method to do it correctly or for it to have an impact on your POI?