Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Received word that he doesn't want to talk to me.

**Posted by Christiinnnnnee** 8/02/2017 8:35 pm

The break up with my ex was not bad. You see the relationship was good. Its just that he's a real gentleman and its hurts his pride not having money to date me because he resigned and his savings where almost finished. So fine.

Yesterday i recieved word that he doesn't want anything to do with me.

You see I gave him a gift in advance for his birthday. I bought the gift last january. When we were still so inlove. I put in love letters and hid it at my friends house. Recently my friend gave it him. He crampled all the love letters but he kept the jordan 1. Which i dont understand.

I need help.

Im trying to focus on myself this past few weeks. However the thought of him and his new girl will shoot me down.

Tho i had this spiritual contact with him a week ago. Not intentionally. His soul was reaching out to me. Saying he was looking for me. It happened multiple times. Then he told my friend he doent want anything to do with me. I dont understand.

**Posted by Lifesagas** 8/03/2017 12:40 pm

Do you want to expend mental and emotional energy on someone who has said they don't want to hear from you?

**Posted by Shayne** 8/03/2017 7:20 pm

Christiinnnnnee wrote:
The break up with my ex was not bad. You see the relationship was good. Its just that he's a real gentleman and its hurts his pride not having money to date me because he resigned and his savings where almost finished. So fine.

Yesterday i recieved word that he doesn't want anything to do with me.

You see I gave him a gift in advance for his birthday. I bought the gift last january. When we were still so inlove. I put in love letters and hid it at my friends house. Recently my friend gave it him. He crampled all the love letters but he kept the jordan 1. Which i dont understand.

I need help.

Im trying to focus on myself this past few weeks. However the thought of him and his new girl will shoot me down.

Tho i had this spiritual contact with him a week ago. Not intentionally. His soul was reaching out to me. Saying he was looking for me. It happened multiple times. Then he told my friend he doent want anything to do with me. I dont understand.

If you feel that he is worth it, continue with your visualization and meditations. And eventually use the rubbing out technique for the girlfriend. This is all if you truly think he's worth it.

**Posted by Christiinnnnnee** 8/03/2017 7:56 pm

I think he is. You see he's the only guy who is eying me for marriage. When he introduced me to his parents and his whole family he said this is christine the woman im going to marry. And our relationship was really good. All of my friends envy us for being so sweet and having such a good relationship.

I was also told that he's depressed eversince the break up. My friends showed me pictures he's a real Chubby guy and now he lost a lot of weight and his face look like he is an addict. Thats why I feel that he is heart broken and he needs me.

**Posted by LearningToDetach** 8/03/2017 10:13 pm

Christiinnnnnee wrote:
I think he is. You see he's the only guy who is eying me for marriage. When he introduced me to his parents and his whole family he said this is christine the woman im going to marry. And our relationship was really good. All of my friends envy us for being so sweet and having such a good relationship.

I was also told that he's depressed eversince the break up. My friends showed me pictures he's a real Chubby guy and now he lost a lot of weight and his face look like he is an addict. Thats why I feel that he is heart broken and he needs me.

You've got more hopes than many of us.

Just leave him alone for a while. How long has it been since you have heard from him? And whose words were it to tell you he doesn't want to hear from you again?

**Posted by Christiinnnnnee** 8/04/2017 1:25 am

My friend gave him the gift 2 days ago. My friend sent me screenshots of him saying he doesn't want to see me again and he can return the gift if I want to.

**Posted by Christiinnnnnee** 8/04/2017 1:50 am

What I dont understand is where all this hate is coming from. Maybe I manifested it maybe not. You see eversince the break up I did not ask him to get back together. I did messaged him days after the break up but after that nothing more. Its been months since we last talked. I never did anything that would make him hate me. So i dont understand.

**Posted by YesIWILL** 8/04/2017 8:48 am

Christiinnnnnee wrote:
What I dont understand is where all this hate is coming from. Maybe I manifested it maybe not. You see eversince the break up I did not ask him to get back together. I did messaged him days after the break up but after that nothing more. Its been months since we last talked. I never did anything that would make him hate me. So i dont understand.

Have you tried asking the friend what happened?

For now, go NC. No gifts (take it from me ;) ) nothing. Then start the techniques.

You can manifest him back!!!

**Posted by Blossom1** 8/04/2017 11:59 am

perhaps he has touch of depression and not sure what he wants?seems strange you should break up when it was going so well? he sounds confused, perhaps he said he wanted no more contact in the heat of the moment?i'd personally go no contact, have some me time and start doing few techniques when you feel better, if you feel like it of course.ive manifested my ex back several times when he was pushing me away, said we were going nowhere etc .. he was and is going through a tough time emotionally atm (currently losing a loved one to cancer ) I find focusing on the positives in our relationship and not the negatives really helps ;) I know we'll be fine in the end and I'm sure will too if you just give it some time x

**Posted by sweetlove1990** 8/04/2017 7:42 pm

Lifesagas wrote:
Do you want to expend mental and emotional energy on someone who has said they don't want to hear from you?

If that's what they choose to do that's that's their decision. What you think is right or wrong doesn't apply to anyone else. At the end of the day the decision is the individuals, I've seen so many success stories that begin like the OP's post. No situation is impossible.