Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Don't worry about other girls/guys

**Posted by Dan2015** 6/19/2017 5:47 pm

I don't know if this is the right place for it.

But. I feel like one of the major things anyone trying to attract back an ex or a specific person deals with, is worrying if there's other people in the picture(whether if you know about them or not). Trust me, I've been there

You really do just have to worry about you and your goal, try not pay attention to things you see or things you assume. It's hard sometimes, so if you're like me, and you analyze/notice everything. Then try to change your view

So many people have said this, but it's so true. Whether you're trying to attract an ex or specific person. At times it can be way more difficult than going general. See; I try to encourage people to go for what they want, but I feel like if you're deprsssed,sad,etc about it, you should give up the chase(not necessarily the desire) but the "need" of it

I feel like too many people try way too hard with a specific person, especially the techniques. But if you're doing the techniques out of desperation/depressing or even trying to control another person. It won't work. You're suppose to do it out of love and you enjoying it

I've switched my techniques lately honestly, instead of RS and visualizing I've been doing more self love and also unconditional love meditations. I feel like those help a lot

**Posted by Suzy** 6/19/2017 7:18 pm

Can you explain "unconditional love mediations"?

**Posted by Dan2015** 6/19/2017 7:23 pm

Suzy wrote:
Can you explain "unconditional love mediations"?

Have you heard of Agnes? I forgot her last name

But you say the persons name and she has like a whole guided meditation for it

**Posted by Suzy** 6/19/2017 7:27 pm

Yes I've heard of her. I will look on YouTube.

**Posted by Dan2015** 6/19/2017 7:42 pm

Suzy wrote:
Yes I've heard of her. I will look on YouTube.

I think you'll enjoy

**Posted by Suzy** 6/19/2017 7:45 pm

Sounds like something I need to hear

**Posted by Blossom1** 6/20/2017 12:08 pm

I did one yesterday - its agnes vivarelli think the vid might be called projecting unconditional love/similar

how have you felt it helped? do you mean it helped you with your alignment or helped as in you have had positive contact etc. from the person you were sending it to?

**Posted by Dan2015** 6/20/2017 12:22 pm

Blossom1 wrote:
I did one yesterday - its agnes vivarelli think the vid might be called projecting unconditional love/similar

how have you felt it helped? do you mean it helped you with your alignment or helped as in you have had positive contact etc. from the person you were sending it to?

Both. But especially alignment, it just feels like getting weight off my shoulders

Like colonel says, I think when it comes to people especially specific people, a lot of loa people think of them as objects or property. A lot only want the other to be happy if it's with us

But. I feel it's deeper than that, they're humans just like us, and deserve our respect and love whether they date us or not

**Posted by Colonel Roosevelt** 6/20/2017 1:19 pm

Dan2015 wrote:
Like colonel says, I think when it comes to people especially specific people, a lot of loa people think of them as objects or property. A lot only want the other to be happy if it's with us

But. I feel it's deeper than that, they're humans just like us, and deserve our respect and love whether they date us or not

Yes, it goes much deeper. I think a lot of us will agree that telepathy exists so people (including the ex) sense your thoughts, they sense your energy. So if you think of them like property/ objects for you to control and manipulate, isn't it creepy? Would you find it attractive if someone thought of you that way? When things were going good between you both, did you think of them as property or an object to be manipulated? Did you think of them as something you have to depend on to be happy? No, you probably just appreciated them for who they are, really liked them, and felt great for being with them. That was the state of being.

Plus, it sets a bad precedent for a real relationship. Think about it - if you're training your mind to see this person as an object to be manipulated and controlled, does that sound like a healthy relationship? Is that really the relationship you want? One where you have to control and manipulate the other, a battle of wills? I thought the point of being in a relationship is for two wills/ two beings to come together to be greater than what they can be apart.

And...it's wrong application of LoA. LoA is not about you getting what you want, it's about you going into a state of being where you realize you are the person who already has their desire. It's about being. So when you think of people as objects to control and manipulate - you're manifesting more of the need to control - you're not in a state of being that allows love, you're in a state of being where you need to control people...so you manifest more situations that make you want to use techniques to control others.

**Posted by PrettyFlamingo** 6/20/2017 2:35 pm

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

And...it's wrong application of LoA. LoA is not about you getting what you want, it's about you going into a state of being where you realize you are the person who already has their desire.

But people don't have their desire which is why there are all these posts about getting exes back, and they can't get into a state of being where they have their desire, which is their ex, because they don't have them. It seems Catch 22.

You've lost me here.