Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Small step forward

**Posted by unicornsandrainbows** 4/07/2017 6:22 am

Are things still swimming along with your woman, I hope? I'm trying to let go of my man---like you said, dwelling causes too much pain. And I'm done with choosing someone who repeatedly is not choosing me.

**Posted by Seal** 4/07/2017 12:03 pm

unicornsandrainbows wrote:
Are things still swimming along with your woman, I hope? I'm trying to let go of my man---like you said, dwelling causes too much pain. And I'm done with choosing someone who repeatedly is not choosing me.

Yes. We are still taking it slow, but things are getting better each and every day. I feel happy and healthier now. My happiness does not depend on her. She compliments my happiness, but I will be happy with whomever I decide to share my life with. At the risk of sounding repetitive, you shouldn't give up. You just need to let go and not worry about your significant other. Your happiness should not depend on them. The minute your mind accepts this as reality.... the minute you stop caring... that's when things change. It's easier said than done. But only once that happens is when you'll manifest your desire.

**Posted by unicornsandrainbows** 4/07/2017 12:23 pm

Thank you, Seal, and I'm glad things are looking up for you. You are right! Easier said than done.

There's such a fine line between giving up and letting go, that it sometimes causes a rift in my brain. Even in the past 24 hours, I've vacillated between "that's it! I'm done! I don't want what (who) doesn't want me!"---AND---"well, if I could find a way to just back off, focus more on other things (even other men), but still send love and have good thoughts about him/us, maybe I should do that." I had a setback a few weeks ago that put a cog in my faith, so now I'm just confused. Some say to persist, no matter what; some say set the intention, then let go, put no more energy into it. Harumph.