Let go of my ex once and for all.

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Posted by Meg2222
12/13/2016 10:32 am 		#1

I understand that people might not see this as a positive, however to me it is. It wasn't until I had met someone new I realised how toxic of a relationship and person my ex was. It may have been my reality, but in the end trying to manifest him back was exhausting me and I didn't feel good.

Since meeting someone new, it had made me realise what I deserve and that I deserve to be treated like a queen! As should every woman by their men! 

However, this new guy has said he wants to take it slowly, I am worried he is saying this because he isn't that into me, but then his actions show completely different that he is already head over heels for me. He cooks me dinner and breakfast, he takes me out, he brings me over thing I need for my flat like milk, loo roll, etc. He is always affectionate and always telling me how much he likes me and loves being around me. He even dropped off me and my friends some ice lollies because he thought we would want them. Yet he says he wants to slow things down, I am a bit confused but I will respect the pace he wants to take, I do want this to go further with him..

stupid question but can i use the same techniques with my new guy? (I no longer do it on my ex as I don't want him back anymore)

Thanks guys xxx
 

Last edited by Meg2222 (12/13/2016 10:39 am)

 
Posted by jensherratt
12/13/2016 11:06 am 		#2

Yes do whatever feels right for you. The techniques will work on anyone if you believe that they will.
I will say this though, if you want a man to treat you like a queen then you should treat him like a king!

We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.  
 
Posted by Sanshi
12/13/2016 11:25 am 		#3

Meg2222 wrote:

However, this new guy has said he wants to take it slowly, I am worried he is saying this because he isn't that into me

Be careful what you worry about. You create your reality.

Of course you can apply it to your new guy. It's an universal law. There aren't any boundaries.
 

"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
 
Posted by Avaelle
12/13/2016 11:37 am 		#4

Be careful not to carry the remains of a toxic relationship into a new relationship.  You're a wonderful and beautiful person that identified their worth!  You have nothing to fear or doubt.

The Universe is your playground.
 
Posted by Meg2222
12/13/2016 2:02 pm 		#5

Oh yes definitely, that's always been a flaw I treat them too nicely sometimes haha!

But you guys are right, I'm trying not to bring old baggage into this. I need to just enjoy it and chill out!

Thanks again xxx

 


 
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